somebody, anybody, tell me to chill outttt!! "/

[OctoberMommy2014]

I don't know what's wrong with me, but at 12w4d I simply just don't feel pregnant.

my nausea is gone (unless something triggers it.. chicken for example), boobs aren't killing me, not really feeling the light "cramps" in my belly anymore, etc. my fiancé swears (and I do see it) that I have a cute little belly already, I'm still super tired/sleepy all the time, certain things trigger heartburn..

idk, I just know I've read too many stories of women still having pregnancy symptoms even after they've miscarried.
I last saw our baby at 9w4d & 9w6d.. first time was in the ER, second was at my 1st OB appt.
[again, diagnosed with a Subchorionic Hemorrhage - I've seen NO dark brown blood since about 11w].
I'm just scared to death to go to our next appt. at 13w6d (next thursday) & NOT see/hear a heartbeat.

are there signs of a miscarriage at this point? am I not the only one freaking out?! lol -- I almost upset my fiancé when I talk/worry so I've avoided saying anything to him.. so here I am, seeking answers from you ladies.
sorry it's so long.. 25, ftm, freaking out.. thanks in advance for your responses!!
keep us in your prayers!! ❤

[Ooolala1988]

Btw, chill out!!! :D

[emommyof3]

Most pregnancy symptoms go away after the first trimester not all women get this lucky but your far enough along for your symptoms to start easing up

[Ooolala1988]

I'm sure you're just fine. Try not to stress. I haven't had any nausea or breast tenderness since I was about 10ish weeks. I'm now 37+1. I'm a ftm to, and there are things I still worry about. I'm sorry I can't be of much help. Just try not to worry so much! Take care and best of wishes. :)

[excited123]

I know how you feel..no.matter how much you tell yourself not to panic being a first time mom makes it hard not to. We had a number of little complications and bumps along the way but we are now 37 + 3 and baby is growing.. You will be fine