Ugh, true. Sometimes they lapse in care and sorry if that is the case with you. Ya, your hormones could be whacked out. You could be having a slow thyroid with weight gain and lack of energy, hot flashes. A simple blood test getting your hormone values would answer that question! I guess you are going to have to call the doctor back and ask for that. Or better yet, find a new doctor? It's hard though when you are established with someone. Let me know how it turns out, okay?