Hey guys, I'm asking a few questions since I don't know where to turn at the moment:
I am a 25 y/o male, but the situation mostly concerns an old friend of mine who is a 26 y/o female, 250+ lbs, 5'8 height with irregular periods (more on that below).
Long story short, one night in mid-November 2017 I rubbed my penis against her vagina, no idea on precum contact, and i'm fairly certain no penetration occurred. Soo I've literally been terrified for the last 8 (will be 9 on Friday)
• End of November 2017: Negative Pregnancy Test #1 (Dollar Tree Brand)
• **A Day later:**She gets period #1 (5 Day Heavy Flow)
• Late December 2017: Negative Pregnancy Test #2 (Clearblue Digital)
• Early January 2018: Negative Pregnancy Test #3 (Clearblue Digital) and period #2 (5 Day Heavy Flow)
• Early February 2018: Negative Pregnancy Test #4 (Dollar Tree Brand)
• Mid February 2018: Period #3 (5 Day Heavy Flow)
• March 2018: No Period
• April 2018: No Period, OBGYN Appointment, Negative Pregnancy Test #5 (clinic urine test) at obgyn office, pelvic exam
• May 2018: No Period
• June 2018: No Period
• July 2018: No Period
So right now you may see the crux of my issue here. She had 3 full periods, then suddenly they just stopped! She has told me that it's kinda "normal" for this to happen to her. She isn't on any type of birth control either.
~Now to the questions:~
I shouldn't be worried about her being pregnant should I? We didn't have penetrative sex, she had 3 full periods since that incident and every single test is negative, OB appointment found nothing, she's had ACTUAL penetrative sex with at least 3 other guys since February, and it's been 8, almost 9 MONTHS...I know I should have stopped worrying about this, MONTHS AGO, but honestly i'm scared...
With the OBGYN appointment, she said that they did a urine pregnancy test, some blood work (no blood preg test), and had a pelvic exam and pap-smear and said that they found nothing of concern. With that in mind, can an obgyn 100% determine pregnancy/non-pregnancy with a pelvic exam and a negative urine pregnancy test?
To be honest, I just want to stop worrying and be happy again...my life has been a constant state of paranoia and fear for this long, and I just want to breathe and relax again...this is all my fault and i'm an idiot that this even happened if I am to be frank...