What's happening? Am I pregnant? I AM SCARED

[Nelly124]

Please, help me. It's my 53rd day, and I noticed that my pubic hair (sorry) is hardened like a dry discharge is there and on my underwear there's brown flakes (not stain). Nevertheless I used pantyliner, and noticed that there are some brown flakes, and a bit of browb red liquid but not on the middle area, but the uppest area of the pantyliner. Nothing came out when I pee too. I took a shower and there are nothing red from the hardened area. And now there's nothing on my pantyliner. And my waist feels like it's hugged by sth. I am so scared. It's evening so I can't even take the test now because it must be done in the morning right?

Before this it was just clear or opaque one with some dry days. Until now there's no breast pain, only slight discomfort on back and lower abdomen area.

[specialmom]

So, don't let vaginal discharge panic you.  That often changes from time to time even if yours hasn't before and ya, it can clump up in your pubic hair.  This really isn't something I associate with pregnancy.  However, you are late.  If you are sexually active, then you should test.  First morning's urine is great but at 53 days late, you can really probably test any time of the day.  There are lots of reasons why women are late though, such as stress, illness, changes in routine, weight gain or loss, etc.  So, take a test and let us know.

[Nelly124]

There is light red discharge. Not exactly pink, but not deep red. It's like it's faded on the pantyliner. I have tested last Monday and it was negative. Should I test again tomorrow? And based on my marks on the calendar on my tracker app, since last year February, my cycle is 33-55 days, and I skipped a month twice. Sigh..

[Nelly124]

I tried to check today in the morning, but I think sth is wrong so no result came up. But the box said that if you test in a week after you missed your period, the result will be 99% and last time when I did it it was negative.

[Nelly124]

Um.. just took one and it's negative..

[Nelly124]

Um.. just took one and it's negative..

[specialmom]

Honestly, I don't think you're pregnant.  Women really can just be late.  You are super stressing yourself out.  And stress compounds the problem.  Doctors like women to have periods every 3 months so when it hits the three month mark of no period (if it does), see your doctor or you have the option to go at two months.  I had very long cycles out of nowhere in my 20's where i'd get a period every 3 to 4 months!  I had a sow thyroid.  I just think you have a late period and this DOES happen.  PS:  my period/hormones/cycle went back to normal on its own.  good luck