Aa
can't prove I'm pregnant?
Hi I'm 26 years old and been married for almost a year. My husband and I are trying to conceive but there have been issues. I got of bc pills in June and didn't have a period until December. I had lots of tests everything came out find and I eventually started, the bc thinned the lining of my uterus until it was so thin there was nothing to shed. I have not Hafez another ultrasound because ive had two periods. My first was Dec 1st and second was Jan 8th, so it's not regular yet. I feel pregnant I Havre huge sore hard nipples all the time, sorry if that's tmi, but also nauseas all the time especially around 5 am or so. I have acid reflux really bad, I've not thrown up. But pregnancy tests say negative.. I know exactly when the intercourse took place I have it all in my planner, I'm logging everything. So it would have beentbeen two weeks ago Fri. That weekend is when my ovulation calender sais I would ovulate but it's all speculation because no normal cycle yet. Is it too early to tell if it's 13-16 days along? I am starting to feel defeated' looking at all these negative tests. Please give advice I'm trying for my first baby. Also I bought ovulation tests and I'm not sure when to use them? That may sound dumb but I'm new to this. I also bought the special thermomiter and not sure if checking my temp now would be any help? Thanks for listening please share and advise!
Best Answer
I would agree with Annibrooke and Nichole. Im in the same boat as you... Im 26 and my husband and I have been trying for about 8 months with no success. I feel totally defeated and am exhausted and every other emotion! I've tried First response and clear blue and keep getting negatives! :( I have always been regular and never late... This month im about 3-5 days late. I just decided today to go and have a blood test today cause i couldn't wait any longer and didn't want to another negative hpt!! Hang in there! From what i hear is not all women get a positive hpt so i would suggest if you are questioning it go have a blood test! Keep me posted!
I never went and got a blood test. Never could seem to find the time... I'm still hoping I'm pregnant, but trying to have reasonable expectations. I wish I had regular periods and then maybe things would be easier to understand. I haven't taken a test since early Friday morning, which is good, since I go through them like they're are fun and free. Congrats on being pregnant cc Clark. Happy for you. Kay I'm hoping you get your positive soon! This is becoming agony! My husband and I went out to dinner and I had two drinks and I look up at a sign in the bar that says alcohol in pregnant women causes birth defects. I've never noticed anything like that at a restaurant so then I'm thinking it's some sort of sign and I'm just getting crazy with it. I need to go buy more tests tomorrow and see what it says but I bet it's neg like always! Arg frustration!,
Was using my phone and double posted. sorry. One of the things that get to me is when people around you just seem to beat the odds and get pregnant without even trying! I have a friend who actually got pregnant for a married man! on top of all that she has pcos. Here I am married for 3 years doing the right thing ttc for 6 months and nothing! :(
Congrats on your pregnancy. What u are saying about being relax is very true. My dr told me the same thing. For me I am not stressed over not getting my bfp I just get really excited snd nervous some times when its close to week 4 when I can find out. I haven't been trying anything apart from the app to predict ovulation but if I don't succeed this month ill buy the ovulation kit.
Congrats CC_Clark! Im with Kaythomas... I try not to stress about it but when it gets close I get really excited and then either get my period or a negative :( I do get a little stressed when we hear from all of our family, friends and coworkers almost every day!
Aww congrats. Thanks for the advice. My Dr told me the same. Try to relax and not stress over it. The truth is I'm not stressing over it I just get really excited and nervous when I'm close to finding out. I enjoy buying my friends stuff for their baby's and always imagine buying stuff for mine. Hoping and praying it happens soon.
you ladies keep trying, my husband and I were trying to hard to get pregnant, but the more you stress about trying to conceive the more chances of not getting pregnant. Good news though, once I stopped stressing and thinking "I really want to get pregnant now, what ever it takes!", I just took a break from stressing and enjoyed my family and not putting too much energy to it, and now im 5 weeks pregnant. And if you have been on birth control (I was on mirena for 5 yrs) it takes a bit for your body to get on a schedule, especially with the fertility part...I know its hard because y'all really want it, but step back a bit and relax your body and energy and see what happens..I wish the best for y'all
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Am I Pregnant? Community
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.
