does my pregnant girlfriend hate me or is it hormones?

[Raydezy]

hi. me and my fiance used to be so loving we moved in together pretty quick we done everything together and loved each other more than anything, we decided to try for a baby and looked forward to marrage and being a family, she fell pregnant and is 3 months pregnant yesterday, the last 3 months have been so hard, it seems all her love has died she wants nothing to do with me anymore she packed my bags and threw me out 5 days ago, i havent seen her for 3 days i rang her phone its turned off i ring her mams, she answers but has told me not to ring no more i havent seen her for 3 days i told her today how much this is killing me and i havent eat or slept, she told me she has been fine :( ,its as if she just turned her feelings off over night and there is nothing i can do or say to change her mind she says she doesnt want no one else and we wont split up completely i can still see her now and then but i can never move back in with her, she says its not her hormones making her like this (but i think it is as she was never like this before) she says she does love me but she cant stand to be around me i cant talk to her or she will walk out i cant kiss, cuddle her nothing, when i tell her its upsetting me she laughs in my face, she says she doesnt know why she feels like this she just feels it,she wont go nowhere with me, not even to the shop, she dumped me on valentines day and didnt care about her presents or look at her card, i have tried everything i can to make her happy but it seems she is getting angrier every day, when will this stop i want my loving caring gf back, i love her soooooooo much i know it must be hormones she cant just fall out of love with me like that we were soooooo close, its killing me has anyone pls got any advice on why she feels so angry, she seems to have no interest in the pregnancy at all, and doesnt even want people to know im dying to tell people, i know its not her and it must be something to do with her hormones or something as we both wanted this soooo much, she was never ever angry i never seen her angry once before she got pregnant, will this anger and hate wear off will she ever come back to me, we went to our 3 month scan and i really thought it would put a smile on her face, her only reaction was to say to me "im suprised its still alive", it seems everything she says to me is aimed at breaking me, and im completely broken, if it is hormones when will they settle down a little? it as if she went from being loving, affectionate and caring, to having nothing for me. It's as if all of her love for me died, and it's killing me inside,  I love this woman more than anything, and can't wait to be the father of her child, but I don't know if I can handle the hurt I feel on the inside anymore. This is breaking my heart, and I am a complete disaster, can pregnancy really be this difficult? What can I do? I am completely lost.

[Stashie23009]

its normal, i was the same way the first trimester but once i got used to how everything was kinda changing i got over it, but i would deffinatly talk to her if u feel that alone, if shes not willing to talk you could always go see a theropist your self to let it out, and show her yr really into the pregnancy ask questions at dr appointments, ask her how she feels every once and a while thru out the day, if she is craving something bring it home from work if u can or ask of there is anything she would like, like a foot message or back message or even if u suck at it her toe nails painted or anything like that. try it and mayb she will relax more about being touched

[billyb101]

Ik how you feel. My fiancé is 7 months. We were so happy an in love a month ago then a few days ago everything came crashing down. She told me she is unhappy and no longer in love with me. She left and went to her moms for a few day then I get a message saying she isn't coming home. We are trying to work things out but even when I do try she says it still isn't enough. She said she feels so helpless. Idk what to do. She has had a miscarriage before. I'm scared this is gonna stress her to the point where I lose her an our daughter

[menolo]

like i touch her she gets mad  its hard to dael with

[menolo]

i dont no what to do

[menolo]

my girl to she has lost it she says she hates me and never want to talk to me but its out of nowhere i rele dont no what to do

[laylo_seeds]

My boyfriend just Now started  putting me in my  place lol I needed it cause I was getting pretty bad..but hun if she's smoking and drinking..good chance she'll do that when the baby is here. I had an alcoholic mother and father..pregnant or not..putting a baby at risk like that is unacceptable hormones or not. At this point in time, you have to t think what is more important, you're gf or your baby. Try you're best to talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk then suggest that if she doesn't calm down you'll take some sort of action. My bf calmed me down allot when I told him to get out of my life because he hour green grapes instead of red :-)