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horrible father inlaw?!

Yesterday me&my boyfriend told his father that we expecting he didn't really seem phased by it but today me&my boyfriend went with his father to do some work and he took us to the abortion clinic and told us that we either get an abortion or he will buy the pill online and will put it in my food so that I get the abortion that way. He then barged me in the stomach when I refused to walk in there. The thing is we haven't asked for any of his help, the only thing we asked for was his support and he seems to think his support is trying to black mail me into having an abortion?
I've told him that it has probably come as a shock to him but he said he already knew?!
I honestly don't know what to do? I'm definitely not getting an abortion but I just don't see how he can be like that.
Should I just tell him that if he isn't willing to support us and that he wants his first grandchild dead then he doesn't have to be involved with the child?!

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OMG that Sick, I'm so sorry your boyfriends dad is doing this...  sorry but I would never ever trust him around my child. Even ten Years from now..  people are aloud to not be to happy about a baby coming but that's taking it to far saying that.. ik my father isn't gonna be thrilled but he would never say that and my dad's a real piece of work. he obviously has major mental issues.. so no stay far away from him as you can.  
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Call the police and have it documented so if anything does happen, your baby will get the justice he/she deserves! !!!!!
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I would go around him at all
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If you want this baby then its ablout about that child now not you are your husband /boyfriend or whoever
You need to do what you can to protect your child and yourself the first step is to see a GYN or go to ER and say what he did to you and want an ultrsound done and to be checked and also you will like them to call the police. Because of he attract you and your unborn and is trying you drug your food and drinks with pills to kill your baby !
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What did your boyfriend do in response to this? I would stay away, but I wouldn't do quickly write him out of the child's life. For your safety stay away but he could come around once the child is here
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stay far far far away from him....he sounds like a terrible unsupportive(obviously) jerk. i hope you dont live with him....and if you dont do not let him in your home. and yes what did your bf do or say? you should call an officer or go in and see if they can do anything. this guy deserves no part of yours or this sweet babies life!!!!
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