horrible father inlaw?!

[laurenfayxo]

Yesterday me&my boyfriend told his father that we expecting he didn't really seem phased by it but today me&my boyfriend went with his father to do some work and he took us to the abortion clinic and told us that we either get an abortion or he will buy the pill online and will put it in my food so that I get the abortion that way. He then barged me in the stomach when I refused to walk in there. The thing is we haven't asked for any of his help, the only thing we asked for was his support and he seems to think his support is trying to black mail me into having an abortion?
I've told him that it has probably come as a shock to him but he said he already knew?!
I honestly don't know what to do? I'm definitely not getting an abortion but I just don't see how he can be like that.
Should I just tell him that if he isn't willing to support us and that he wants his first grandchild dead then he doesn't have to be involved with the child?!

[kaysie03]

Wat did your bf do/say?

[Carliee7]

I would call the cops, honestly. You can definitely press charges and I really dont think thats over reacting considering he threatened you and your childs life.

[laurenfayxo]

Don't think I've disliked someone as much as I do him. I've said to him that if he can't learn to support us with his grandchild then he won't be seeing it/hearing about it. I called my doctor and she said asking as I get no cramping/bleeding then I don't need to worry until my next appointment. The police have been called and they have given us a crime number and have told us that if he comes near me to ring them and they'll remove him off the property.

[Michellebae]

Wtf don't bother with him
Don't visit him
Don't even let him near you that's shocking its completely you're choice if you want to have this baby or not what an idiot his first grandchild and he should miss out on so much you should let you're boyfriend know how angry you are!!

[nellew11]

Stay very far away a away from him and there is no if he isn't willing to support yall he doesn't have to have is 1st grandchild in his life the child should never be in his life period there is no choice for him and I wouldn't care if down the line he says he has changed I wouldn't trust him around me or my child stay away

[mirandavazquez11]

Yes tell him that and stay away from him! (Dont eat his food either) he is sick ! You dont need him or the negitivity in your life. Its bad for you and the baby and you never know if he'll try to pull some funny buisness. Stay away !