baby shower drama vent

[jackie507]

So my baby shower is on the tenth of August and my grandmother and mother are throwing it for me. Well I helped do invites with my mom and my grandmother sent them out. Well I get a call from my grandmother that I need to come over (she lives next door) so I go over and she hands me a list of names and says you forgot some people. So I sit down and start reading over the names, come to find out it was family members that start drama everytime they come over. One even told me when she found out I was pregnant to abort my ******* child before I get to far along. So I laid the list down and politely said that they weren't invited for a reason. My grandmother gets all bent out of shape and tells me her house her rules. I was like really sooo now I'm hoping she will get over it and let us have it in her house if not then I think I may uninvite her... I feel bad but I mean I don't heed the stress

[jackie507]

Lol I know the feeling I just don't know how to explain that to her, she is the type of person who has to be in control it is slightly annoying since this is my baby....

[lumadea]

It's Your Baby Shower Not Your Grandmas And You Can Invite Who You Want. The Ones Who You Aren't Inviting Deserve Not To Be There. Tough Luck. I Have A Few Family Members I'm Not Inviting Because They're Greedy Selfish A-holes