family finding out Vent

[jazzalynsmommy2013]

Omg so my sister is so noise and always snooping around and always finding stuff well the other day i asked her to fax paper work off for my insurance so today i got a text saying why havnt u told anyone ypu pregnant and due oct 26th  im scared now my family wont talk to me anymore becuase of everything im just so upset crying isnt good for me either :( idk what to do

[hevamarie]

well said! lol

[ciera1350]

I honestly don't understand why the hell families do that. I mean I can understand being upset if you're living with them and they're financially supporting you because them it has an impact on them. But if you're living on your own away from them, then what the heck is there to be upset about.?? It has no impact on them financially, emotionally, or mentally. If they want to be around and in the baby's life then good, if they wanna act stupid about it then that's a problem they need to deal with on their own. They're the ones that will miss out not you. End rant. Lol.

[hevamarie]

some family are really crap
makes us feel so lucky hey?
i'm sure you have some good friends that can make up for that? and the fact your older sister is there
good luck
thoughts for happiness and stress free days for you x

[Tay9662]

she had a baby when she was younger and her mother adopted her I believe, its screwed up that there treating her this way /:

[babynumber3in2013]

Oh... how many do you have? Are you married/with the father? Why do they care how many children you have?!

[jazzalynsmommy2013]

My family told me if i ever have anymore children they want nothing to do with me

[Tay9662]

well at least your older sister is there, you need someone.. and things might change once you have your baby

[babynumber3in2013]

Why wouldn't they talk to you anymore because you're pregnant? If you don't mind me asking...

[jazzalynsmommy2013]

Yes cant stand her but my older sister said she is here for me no matter what

[Makayla213]

I live in a very small town. Everybody knows everybody, and all their business. For example when I was younger somebody say me smoking a cigarette and called my mom. Wasn't a friend or anything. So when I got pregnant the first time I found out at 22 weeks. Somebody told my dad. He was furious. He didn't talk to me until around Christmas maybe the beginning of January, and I was due the 26 of Jan. But he came around, and even got me stuff, well his girlfriend did. Then this time he found out because the dads mom loves to start sh it in our family so she went and told my dad at my best friends funeral. I was planning on telling him on my birthday because I would be 16 or 17 weeks and the risk of losing the baby is lower. Anyways, he hasn't talked to me since the end of June, but his girlfriend has. Your family will come around. :)

[Tay9662]

-__- is this the same sister you were trying to not "ruin her moment"? the one that had or is having the baby?? I feel bad for you, family can be a ***** some times.. I would just have told them straight up, that you were having a baby and if they liked it good if not who cares? this is your baby screw what they think, like I said last time its you and the baby that needs to be happy and that involves not being stressed. so if they want to talk **** or bother you or not talk to you tell your self "who gives a ****" and move on from it cause if they come around or they don't that's not going to effect your ability too be a good mother :) so cheer up girl don't let it get to you

[Fairymary]

Don't stress hun.  Let them come to their senses. . They will come around my family was like that too abd didn't want to talk for a little bit but they will come around:)