Ask your dr for something . Mine just put me on zoloft because I was crying all the time too. But try and stay busy with your kids to keep your mind off it as much as possible.
Just keep busy, my hubby was in jail for a week when I was 20 weeks pregnant ( I am 34 weeks now ) and it sucked. I ended up staying with my family and doing alot of errands and crafts with my little siblings to pass the time.
It is okay to be depressed at this, and I found late at night I would vent in a journal and cry but only for 20 minutes then I would have some tea or hot chocolate and find something to do. I hope your hubby gets out on the 12th.
Just keep busy! Clean, craft, exercise, anything to keep your mind off the stressful situation. I hope everything works out for you & your family! Keep your head up!