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9309926 tn?1405447056

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Okay am I the only one that is not getting turned on during sex anymore.. I feel so exhausted no matter what we do I just can't get in the mood. Anybody having this problem?
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Your sex drive fluctuates during pregnancy... Maybe talk to him about it and just let him know what's going on with you. Who knows many your libido will kick in again. Mine comes and goes... The last week or so I haven't really wanted sex just because I'm so tired and the pain I feel in my back. You shouldn't have to feel guilty and your partner definitely shouldn't make you feel guilty but there is other things you can do "for him" other than sex. Or tell him to do it himself when your not around depending what you are more comfortable with...
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I feel like I just ran a marathon every time we have sex and I don't even do anything lol. The only tolerable postions anymore are reverse cowgirl and doggy. But even those I just do it for him. No more mojo =(
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Me!! It's not the same anymore maybe because I'm closer to having my baby now, but I still pretend like I want it so he won't feel bad lol
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I actually felt like this after I had the baby.. absolutely no desire for sex.
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I have no desire to have sex I feel bad for my husband cause he wants it an I always tell him no so he just stopped asking. It's just so uncomfortable an I just don't want it.
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9309926 tn?1405447056
Like I use to get the urge early in my pregnancy an then when my daughter got bigger it just left.
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9309926 tn?1405447056
I hate it. I feel bad cause when we do have sex it just dosent feel good its just like there lol
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i feel like that at times but sometimes the urge to have sex is way too much lol i say rollercoaster!
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10013575 tn?1410961435
Yrs. Yes. Yes. I feel the same way. My go-to positions don't work and I get super tired super quick. I'm 36 weeks. Been this way for 4 weeks now.
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I'm the same way. I haven't had sex throughout whole pregnancy so far and I'm 27w. My partner is 100% there for me and understands.
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9309926 tn?1405447056
I'm 30 weeks btw
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