please help

[sammie1994]

Ok so I got myself into a big mess....

I got pregnant suposably on Feb 14 is my date of conception but I didn't have sex in the 14th
My problem is that I had unprotected sex with a one night stand February 10. Then with my husband Feb 12 and Feb 13

I'm so scared and idk who fathered my child btw me and my husband had broken up from Jan 30  due to him cheating and then we got back together on Feb 11 please help me

[Starzabove9]

Im sorry hun, but this is one of those situations where youre gonna have to fess up. Your days are too close to tell. no one on this site nor a doctor can tell you who the father is. Only the DNA test can tell. He can be upset, but you at least slept with someone while broken up, he screwed someone while.you guys were together. oh and just a suggestion, please get tested

[hairdid]

Just going to throw this in there I conceived nov 6-7 and I only had sex on the6 th. I know that doesn't help but just a fyi

[buggie216]

There is a paternity test you can do while your pregnant...check with your drs...i know at my drs office they have all kinds of info on it in the bathroom where you have to leave your urine sample every visit...then you wouldnt have to wait

[sammie1994]

I don't have the heart to tell my husband I really love him and I just don't have it in me to tell him and we had just started ttc that month due to why we had sex on the 13th the ovulation Calender on several different web sites also said I ovulated on the 13th I'm so scared

[jamie4321]

first did you have unportected sex with your husband too?and to me it sounds like the one night stand would be the dad but thats just a guess.i dont know if you know this but there are dna test that you can buy at drug stores now.after baby born you can test your husband with one of those.

[buggie216]

Yeah...with it only being two days apart...either one could be the father...be up front with your husband...he cheated... so you did your thing while you were broken up! you didnt do anything wrong if you werent together!

[NicoleCherie]

Sperm can live in the uterus for up to a week. Ultrasound scans can be off a few days but are usually accurate. If they said you conceived on the 14th that's probably very close. Since your days of sex were so close to this date there is no chance of anyone being able to tell you who the father is.

You will need a DNA test done to know who the father is. I'm sorry dear. I know you must be freaking out.