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Am i really being crazy?

So, am i really being crazy or is my hubby being overly emotional? Our 4 yr old had some candies (in wrappers) and he put all this change on top of it. I said please dont put that in there, thats disgusting especially since u have 2  different containers right by u. He snapped at me, saying "you need to learn how to calm down, theres wrappers on them. These lastt few  weeks, everything i  do is wrong. Its wrong that im going to look for a new job and wrong that im playing with my daughter." Then stomped off into the bedroom. Im just like REALLY? They say ur emotional while pregnant what about the guys? I was really pissed earlier though cuz i was laying in bed & i was talking to the baby telling him its too early to come & he was like who r u talking to? I said the baby and he snaps saying ok so ur talking to urself. Im like no, im talking to the baby, he can hear me. & he says no, the baby is in u so ur talking to urself. I swear, i was two seconds away from packing his stuff & kicking him out right then & there. Im 32 wks along, & ever since he went on vacation with his mom & brother (for 5 days) he has acted like he doesnt want anything to do with the baby. He even went as far as saying he wanted a paternity test cuz about the time i got pregnant, we split up for like a wk. Idk if im more mad or hurt over this. Weve been married two yrs but been together for nine. grr, sorry ill stop rambling now
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That's crazy hes acting like a child well I think theyrr right maybe u should keep ur bb moments to urself n talk to him about other things or do wat I do just play w ur toddler n ignore him they come crawling back for attention it always works!
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wow... yes keep ur distance is just getting to him that the new baby is coming soon ... i dont know how close u are to his family ... but i truely believe fam. has alot of influence in ones life if we let them...
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Just breathe girl. While he was gone it prob hit him that the baby is coming soon and hes getting scared. Just try to keep your distance until he calms down
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