When do we announce our pregnancy? With my first I was 16 and told my parents immediately because I was terrified. Earlier in the year my husband and I had a miscarriage before we told anyone so when I had to tell my mom about the d&c surgery she was hurt that we didn't say anything before then. Well, we just found out we are pregnant again. I am bursting at the seams to tell. should we wait until our first appointment to make sure everything is okay and the baby is healthy.