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Any March mommies experiencing fears?

My girl will be here March 16th. Im a ftm and have so much going thru my mind.
I'm scared of going into labor too early.
My hunni is measuring 4days ahead and our hospital is uptown in New Orleans.
The end of Feb beginning of March is Mardi Gras and the hospital is right off of the major Mardi Gras day parades.
The dr I have is the OB who took care of my mom during her cancer treatments and I really love her. I'm so scared the baby will come during one of the parades and we won't be able to make it.
I've read about stillbirths and that terrifies me. Idk what I would do. My fiance and I have gone thru 2miscarriages already and that has been so tough. He tells me not to worry much bc she's fine, but the thought is there.
One more fear is me dying during the birth ugh! Lol y'all probably think I'm crazy but it makes me think if the pain is too much I could die. Again my fiance says I'm silly and I won't die.
Ahh so much goes thru my head y'all don't even know :p
91more days left:))) OVERALL... I am so ready to meet my little lady and give her kisses. I pray and ask God everyday for a healthy pregnancy safe delivery and happy healthy baby girl every day. So far so good. I can't wait!
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7001988 tn?1392134797
You will do great! My 1st I lived 45mins away from the hospital it was dead in winter. After my mom beat me to the hospital she reassured me look at all the moms u knw they are still alive u can make it to.
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5780464 tn?1374380306
Im not due in march, but its normal to worry. When i first found out about this pregnancy (which is my 3rd)  i cried about something going wrong while delevering. Im guessing its the hormones lol i also worry about not making it to hospital. I live 45 min away from hospital and its winter and roads where i live are always bad. I eased my mind a little bit by learning what to do if i dont make it to hospital lol but still worry.
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6786533 tn?1384793808
You'll be great and everything will work out fine !! Im not due until March 29th but I know she's a blessing and God has everything under control and yu should know that too :-)
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5761111 tn?1373906251
The hospital I go to is 45 min away from where I'm at. I also have those fears and this is my third baby and my first baby girl. I'm due march 8 but I'm pretty sure we will be fine and our baby girls will be ok ")
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