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How many of you lost all your friends after you got pregnant? All my friends are 18 and are smoking weed and drinking and partying while I'm having a baby and married. I guess I gotta find some women on my level more huh? Just ranting.. Lol
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Me! (^-^)/ lol its ok though ill have my baby to keep me company lol i still have a friend who happens to have a baby already it works fine. Just school you know kinda keeps us busy but its all GOoD(:
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Wow I'm sorry to hear you lost your friends. I'm glad I still have my friends, especially their support. They always try and help me out and come and visit me daily cause they want to see if I'm getting any bigger lol. And even my boyfriends friends are really supportive. I just might have been one of the lucky ones. So thankful ♡
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9187090 tn?1406264221
I dont even talk to my so called "best friend" anymore . she says it ***** cuss I can't do anything like we use to smoke,drink, go out late& go be destructive to ppl we don't like. & just so much more. I understand that I'm only 15 but she's been a real *** since I been pregnant. We haven't even talked. The only person I talk/hang out with is my boyfriend. He's my best friend I can talk to him abt anything & I'm just glad I got a boyfriend like that.
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Lost all mine but will probably get new ones after Carter is born.... I'm in too much pain to go make friends
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I was 18 with my first and lost almost all my friends and so did my boyfriend. I am now 23 and on my second baby and have a few friends and one friend left from when I was 18
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I have no friends really but all I really need us my boyfriend his Family and mine
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9263335 tn?1403463032
I lost most of them, I just have about 5 now
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7420616 tn?1401158804
My best friend won't come over anymore because I quit drinking and don't smoke and won't allow it in my house. The other one seems to only talk to me when she wants something and all my other ones have at least 2 kids and never seem to have time to make an effort to go any where or even bring the kids to the park. It's really annoying. I will protect my child but I won't lock him up for the first years of his life. It's good for them to get out of the house as it is for me!
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9077628 tn?1411339700
Yesss, basically all I have friend wise is my bf and my friend who's 3 weeks ahead of me pregnant wise. I'm over it though, all my old friends are focusing on fun and I'm settling down.
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7291916 tn?1399641067
Me! I lost them all. Except two. Pretty sad. But I dont do what they do anymore.  Im a mommy now.  Wouldn't change it for anything.
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My best friend doesnt even talk to me anymore. I had 2 good friends that were guys and my bf didnt like me hanging out with them so i stopped. That was pretty much all of my friends. I have one friend that i didnt really know was my friend and she hangs out with me. She was,gone for a while and just moved back. Weirdly enough shes the youngest friend i have. You really find out who your,fake friends are, your real friends, and the ones who just wanna see your baby once then dip.
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I don't speak to any of my old friends either. I work go home and spend time with my husband. That's about it!
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I literally have no friends anymore lol besides 2! But Obviously they weren't real friends so I'm glad I don't speak to them anymore. No loss for me!
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