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Babys Confused Father

So for a year nd some months, me and my babys dad has been dealing with each other. First we were in a relationship then we broke up but started back talking then it went to just sex. In March we started back talking again without having sex at all. So the next time we decided to have sex (Beginning of April) i become pregnant. Before he never really showed his feelings toward me only naybe we we first got together. Other than that weve just been on nd off. But its like now since we are having a kid he wants us to be a family. Am i being too dramatic when i say i dont want to be with him because that seems fake? I feel as though hes only loving me now because of the kid. We have a great realationship but it seems strange. Help/ Advice Please!
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He obviously have some feelings for u as u was on and off i think if he wouldn't have any fellings he wouldn't be there at all, i'd say give him a chance he may fell in love with u more as u r mother to his baby now (it dose actually happen). Its normal u gonna feel like its just coz of baby bt belive me if he had no fellings for u at all than not even baby will make him stay with u. As long u happy with him and he treat u and the baby good i'd say give him a chance and see how it goes :) good luck
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I wish I was in your place right now :( my husband treated me like a queen saying we're family now and everything...I'm now 8 months pregnant and for some reason he has changed completely :( he said he was blind and didn't know what he was saying and he's not ready to be a family anymore :'(
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I wish I was in your place right now :( my husband treated me like a queen saying we're family now and everything...I'm now 8 months pregnant and for some reason he has changed completely :( he said he was blind and didn't know what he was saying and he's not ready to be a family anymore :'(
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8227972 tn?1414913484
well if thats what he really wants then he needs to prove that first.. specially if you've been on and off for a while.. he needs to show you his real intentions.. some men doesnt grow up when he becomes a father..they act like a boy.. and some men just mature after knowing theyre gonna have a child specially if they want their kid to have a normal life with a real family.. id say give it some time..you may think its fake but you never know if it might be a good start as well..
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6880636 tn?1393491685
Maybe jus take each day as it comes, start dating again and give him a chance
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