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4584876 tn?1358994031

Being replaced help please

Sorry this is so long but I need advice. Ever since my bf(sky) and I found out that I was pregnant it seems he has been replacing me with his friend(cody). I started a couple weeks ago when he asked if I was okay with Cody being our babys godfather, which is fantastic to me Cody is a great guy. Now, Sky and I use to be very close spending as much time as we could together and when we weren't together we were on the phone with eachother. Anyway today was the worst Sky took Cody to work and I expected him home in an hour I woke three hours later and he still wasn't back so I got worried and texted him. He texted back and said that he had told me he had errands to run in town, which he did not tell me. I said okay and started my day he came home 6 hours after he left to take Cody to work. He stayed home for 10 minutes then decided he wanted something better to eat than what I had so left again to get food this time he was gone for an hour. When he finally got home I had a terrible headache and he usually sits and rubs my temples when my headhurts but all he did was say oh then left me alone in our room. He came back in an hour later and told me he was leaving to go get Cody this took 45 minutes and when Sky got back he came straight to me and said "sweetheart I need you to go to your friends tonight I need friend time". Now this wouldn't be so bad but Cody is at our house 24/7 literally. Its like hes moved in with us. So I agree because my head is throbing but I am gonna take a nap first so then he decideds he wants to be around me so him and Cody come in turn on the tv and start talking rather loudly. Then Skys brother shows up asking if they are ready to go. I ask where they're going and Sky says the movies then he rubs my leg and says "see you tomorrow". Not even a real bye. What should I do ladies?
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4584876 tn?1358994031
Alright thanks y'all
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Is he gay? Haha :)  No I am joking. I think you should talk to him. Possibly discuss making  a day or two for him to be with friends...because it is understandable. Once or twice a week for him to spend time with his friend cody seems fair to me.
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Go to sleep and deal with it tomorrow. Let him know how you felt but approach it like "if i did that to you...honestly how would you feel" guys don't get it a lot of times unless you spell it out. He may also be trying to get in "guys time" because its hit him that life is changing soon and fast and he may not know how to handle it.
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