sorry If Tmi. but i need to know.

[ftmAmanda]

what is the best way to have sex at 28 weeks pregnant? weird question i know but some positions are not feeling to well as they did when not pregnant. Lol. suggestions

[mother2be959]

me and my boyfriend both enjoy sex more......when your preggo it just feels much better

[lilmummy]

I find  sex to be uncomfortable, like theres no room in the ( if you know what i mean) and for some reason i get a sore lower back and thats from him been on top, but i'm not really that interested and my poor partner has to suffer, but not long to go, just hoping to get my sex drive back before i give birth =) But yea everyone is different, any suggestions on why or how i can get the pain to stop when i do have sex ?

[SunWorshiper_26]

Sex is so painful for me while pregnant. My poor hubby is so attracted by my "new" and changing body but I feel all Animal planet with the big boobs flopping all over and the belly in the way. It is strictly happy hour for him while pregnant cuz I can't stand penatration and hate getting oral. But I hear doggy style is a great way to go or even bent over the bed or a table. I have an awesome book which has a sex position for every day for an entire yr it even has visuals to help. You should get one :)

[beachbunn1986]

oh sorry you wrote in the msg before   about feeling awkward stuff and feeling like a cow though you were talking about yourself  sorry  , my 3 yr old distracted me with his screaming  he had a nightmare so i just typed  fast. no harm intended :)

[ftmAmanda]

i do not feel like a cow. but thanks though :)

[beachbunn1986]

well not exactly  i did feel like a cow 2 of them in fact but my hubby was more turned on by my ''new'' body and so that eased the the feeling of i look discusting   and things surprisingly didnt feel awkward  the key for me was to relax and enjoy my hubby  b/c i knew wants my baby came i wasnt going to be getting any action for awhile , so maybe if you think this way youll find a way to fool around  also you'll only feel like  a cow for a little biit longer !!!

[ftmAmanda]

Lol. you're hilarious but okay. maybe you like awkward stuff and feeling like a cow. but hey that's you. too each there own

[beachbunn1986]

i never had any problems when it came to sex it put my baby to sleep.  i didnt know there are positions you cant do while pregnant hmm  guess you learn something new everyday     i would just do what you can and like spiket77 just keep changing postitions

[Spiket77]

For me...I have to change positions a lot. If I stay in one position too long I get a cramp or something feels strange. So, I end up feeling like I'm in some kind of crazy athletic event. It works best for us to keep moving! Good luck!

[ftmAmanda]

Lol. only certain positions can been done while pregnant ha. i was just lookin for ideas. with a belly kinda makes things some what awkward

[beachbunn1986]

how bout everynight try a different postition you can go to an adult store they have lots of books on different postitions     it would be a fun  game  

[Expecting_butterfly_numb2]

My husband and I had sex just about everyday when I was pg with our daughter. I've always liked being on top but with a growing belly that can be challenging and draining,lol. When I was farther along having sex laying on our sides was alot more comfortable. Also try doggie and you laying on the edge of the bed feet up or folded and him standing. Sex should always be fun and about trying new things:) good luck and have fun!

[smjmekg]

Try different ways, one way may be better for you than someone else. I like on top all the time better, but it might not be comfortable for you. There's no "best way" really...it's whatever is comfortable. Good luck finding a good one!

[ftmAmanda]

bump

[beachbunn1986]

wow none of you were interseted in sex i was a hornier than a rabbit    lol   doggy style worked well for me and me on top   have fun!!!!!!!

[ammanda]

i never really did it pregnant either, but being on top was the best way to go when we did do it lol

[Clysta]

I wish I could help. My husband and I weren't interested in sex when I was pregnant. I've heard women say that being on top is more comfortable though. Then you can control the speed and how far it is.