My mother and my doula! Momma will record while my doula will help me have the natural birth im planning on:) hope everything goes as planned! Id say your hubby is the only person you need! :)
Sounds like you're ready :) that's awesome.
Yeah, I think you are right. Thats what im leaning towards.
Maaaaaybe my husband. I doubt ill be comfortable with anyone in there with me. Im old fashioned I know!!
Besides my mother and SO I would like my best friend who will also be my sons god mother in the room. Since we were young she's has said she doesn't want kids and I want to open her eyes to what a beautiful thing is. This is my first child and I want her to experience the special moments with me and maybeeee it might make her reconsider!
If you do decide to have more people dont be scared to tell them their roles and what you expect from them. It would be a good idea to get your hubby on the same page as well. Like physical and emotional support and whatnot. Just so when the day comes he doesnt just sit down and stare at you while you go through contractions. If the Lord answers my prayers and my Hubby can be here for our sons birth I'll crack the whip on my expectations haha i want him to help count any everything! Lol:)
Why not your husband? Awe I think he should be with you
But it is your choice. I need my husband!
I also wamt my son but he's like no way it's scary lol he's 18 really wish he would just stand by me and experience it but guess he can't handle it and that's ok.
kcarter2498
does your best friend want to be in there with you?
I was going to have my husband and mom, but my husband and I decided for it to be just him and I. Once they say its time to push, I want everyone except my husband and of course doc & nurse to leave the room. It is our first child. We are both first time parents and we want to share the birth of our baby girl just the 2 of us and in the end 3 of us as a family ♥ maybe my 2nd pregnancy ill have my mom
DreamaMama
oh my husband knows to be with me and help me he's awesome. He knows I had a very bad experience when I had my son. My sons father left me and went to party do drugs and get drunk left me all alone in the hospital :( my husband promised me he will be right there for everything
And I think your right im just gonna have him I get anxiety thinking of having anyone else in there I am just not feeling it on having anyone else I do want my son there but he says no way lol darn!
Ilovejesse5
Yeah, I agree with u sounds like a good plan
its a very beautiful time and very private
For it to be just the two of you is special.
I've decided it will just be me and my husband im glad I asked you guys cuz it helped me make up my mind
:)
I'm happy we were able to help ♥
remember, of course they may not agree with your decision ( your mom & cousin )
but don't let any thing get you down. Like I told my mom when she got upset, "you may be mad & upset now, but once your fist grandchild is here born on earth, you will forget all about it" good luck & congrats :D
Glad to help and im.glad you have a good man by your side good luck with everything girly tell your son to put on his big boy chonies and be there ahahaha i dont blame him tho thats a little much but that chance will only come once he wont be able to take it back!:) maybe try telling him that!
I am only having my SO with me. This is our baby that we made together, and I feel that we should get a little while with the baby on our own before other people get to meet him/her :)
I'm doing a home water birth so the people that I will have here is my mom, husband, doula, midwife and her assistant. My mother in law wanted to be here but I told my husband I'm not comfortable with that and she likes to argue with me and I don't want to deal with that while in labour so he relayed that message to her. Don't get me wrong I love her to death but she wouldn't follow what I wanted and it's my birth. She took it kind of hard and tried to guilt me into allowing her to be there by saying my doula is a stranger and it's her first grandbaby but she got over it. At least I hope she has she hasn't brought it up since.
Yeah, they will forget all about it once baby is here :) and it will be all about baby and they will leave me alone lol
i have tried hard to get my son to say yes and he says no way :/ I ask him just about every day but who knows maybe when the time comes I might get him to come in especially if I cry and beg him lol
It's just how I've always felt. Who knows maybe ill want him in there with me. Well see.. im due next friday!! :)
Maybes hes scared to see you parts lol cry and beg if he goes he'll think twice about having a baby anytime soon since hes young! Lol
I'll be having my boyfriend int he delivery room and I would love my sister to be there as well and she wants to be there too but my boyfriend says he thinks it a moment that should be shared between me him and baby and not anyone else . So idk :( makes me sad cause my sister is the only one that has been there for me family wise but I still want to respect boyfriends opinions
Kat_g92
I definitely wouldn't want her in there either. Especially if you guys argue sometimes. No way! By the way congratulations on deciding on the water birth I wish I was that brave
analorraine
make sure to post your birth story! Good luck and congratulations :)
@DreamaMama
I promised him he wouldn't have to look down there and just ne up ny my head and he said hes scared I will be like a possessed woman and he doesn't wanna get yelled at lol he cracks me up
Yeah that kinda is my goal too so he won't wanna jave kids yet
He has a girl friend and they've been together for 4 years it's pretty serious and hes too young I want him to have time for himself only cuz being a young mother I know the struggles plus I don't wanna be a grandma yet omg!
@Connie0620
awe that must be hard to want her there and having to respect your mans decision but like in my situation maybe it is better just the parents and baby have special bonding time.
Pocessed woman lmaoo!! He really thought about this hahaha! He doesnt wanna see the demons come out of you! Lol so true hes young he has his whole life he needs to get his career and dreams going aint no one got time for kids except us ahhaha its put a hold on my goals it will be hard but ill get through it. Im 23 but i feel 16 and pregnant i feel too young to be having a kid omgosh!! Lol
Yeah, hes funny!
Awe you're gonna be ok you are young still u have alot of time to accomplish your goals :)
Haha hubby is more then ready his biological clock was ticking hes 27 its both our first:)
Awe thats sweet usually it the women who wanna have kids by a certain time
Congratulations to u guys :)