Scared and depressed

[Dakotalclarke]

my partner/babies dad and I just split up after I caught him cheating yet again! I'm 26 weeks and he hit me and choked me and now has thrown all my things outside and locked me out and there is nothing I can do about it! I'm so scared my poor daughter

[juno92]

Sorry you're going through this. Stay strong mama. Any man that treats you like that is not worth your time. Especially when you're pregnant! He obviously doesn't care about you or the baby or he wouldn't have put you out on the street. Is there any family you can then to right now? Someone you can call to get you to a safe place. You can even call the cops. He certainly can not just get away with assaulting you like that.that's completely unacceptable. If I were you I would make sure its on file that he abused you, that way in the future you have grounds to protect your baby from him. If he hit you while you are pregnant( or hit you at all really) then who's to say he won't do it to your baby. Please be safe mama!

[Dakotalclarke]

I called the cops they came and he lied and got his friend to lie to the police saying he never touched me! I suffer from seizures since I been pregnant and I had another seizure last night I'm so unwell! I'm going to my mums but it's 7 hours away so he has to take me! Because we moved to a small remote town a few weeks ago! Cannot believe this all because he cheated and got caught

[juno92]

I'm so sorry. Where did he hit you? I hope your stomach didn't get hit. Last thing you need is anything happening to baby.  This is terrible. Honestly just be done with him. He seems like a terrible person. Not worth your time at all. Just focus on yourself and baby. You need to distance yourself from him completely.

[mommaKatxx]

Uhm don't get in a car with him! Please... That's not safe.

[Dakotalclarke]

He refused to drive me anyways said I cud walk for all he cared so I drove myself very unwell! And now he's being all nice asking me to come back never going to happen ever

[krazie_adri]

Dont go back stay away from him. U must think about your safety and your babies safety. Please becareful and i wish u luck

[ejsmama17]

Stay far far away from him, go talk to an abuse worker that can help you with mental health and even homing help. Good luck and I am so sorry that you had to go through that. That is not a man that is a boy who can shave and a very very ****** human being.

[Dakotalclarke]

Oh thank u ladies but trust me I will not be going back I'm a strong woman I gave him a chance he blew it and I only gave him one for my daughters sake I don't need him neither does my daughter

[AmyLilyCaytee]

Stay strong and stay away!! Once they start hitting they never change. You don't want your daughter seeing that or experiencing that! She may then think it's normal and may then experience it when she's older. Good luck hun xx

[babypeyton21]

I'm so sorry ur going threw this with that crazy man... I myself.put.up with an abusive man for 4 yrs thinking he would change or stop hitting me and the first big time was wen I caught him cheating I.know how hard it is to just let go and now with a baby u may want him back even more u have to.leave sweety its not good for u or it lil girl u wouldn't want.her growing up thinkin its ok for guys to hit women..ur in my prayers..find new friends go to church n pray do wat ever u can to keep him off ur mind includin CHANGE UR NUMBER..good luck and I hope u can get away as I did and live a happy life with someone who deserves u!!! Much prayers ur way I kno how hard it is

[juno92]

Im so relieved that you have the strength to walk away from this situation. A lot of women don't and believe the lies. Good luck mama. You did the right thing