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FUTURE!

I'm going to be a single mother, and I'm currently 39 weeks. I'm a little stressed out thinking and thinking about what I'm going to do in the future for me and my daughter.  I'm currently living with my parents they have helped me out alot. I was living with my boyfriend but things got real nasty with him, so I moved out and in with my parents. Sometimes I feel like a looser , cause I feel like I failed at choosing the right guy. I tried getting a job but getting hired is sooo deficult so my parents are helping me out ALOT. I have my parents support tho thank god, and Iplan on getting a degree after having my baby. I think this is oviously something good , I plan on going to college for dental assistant with my daughter since college offers child care, that way I can in a way be close to her and do something with my life. Not everything you plan turns out as you wish but the way I see my future is ,getting a degree on DA while with my daughter,  hopefully finding a job soon after graduation and re-paying my family back , cause im so thankful,  as well as providing for my daughter! I'm a little stressed and sad but I know I can do it. I feel like I'm the only one going through this , I just had to let things out ! :(
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@terrellsmom15, yes! It's starting to hit me hard. I'll be meeting her soon and I feel like I let her down , by not providing a family that every child deserves but I have to keep my head up for her, thank you so much :)
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Thank you. I know for a fact we didn't loose , because we will have our babies with us. Good Luck to you too :)
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You sound like your just going through the emotions now that your at the end! but you do have a very bright future! being a single mother is something extreme to except! Dont feel down though! Your baby girl is such a blessing! And your ex will.soon figure that out. if he doesnt he never deserved her!! Keep your head up girl! You will ve a great mother, and your daughter will appreciate you so much more in the future because you did it on your own!
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Im going through exactly the same! My parents are helping me a lot & my baby's father has bought nothing for my son, we dont even talk anymore. I always feel like I did make a huge mistake in meeting him but if I wouldn't have, I wouldn't be pregnant with my son! So dont be sad, youre gonna be a mom! (: & youre gonna have a great future with your daughter! You definitely can do it. :) good luck!
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