I know the feeling. It's like, oh, now you care?! No, Go away. You still don't mean anything to me and won't mean anything to my child as well!! Lol
I feel ya, my dads girlfriend HATED me. Now that I'm pregnant she's like "awww we are gonna be grandparents" to my dad and she trys to talk to me.. I just told her "last week you wouldn't even let my dad say my name, don't even look in my direction!!" Its nutts!!
I was the first in my group of friends to get married and pregnant so there was a bit if a rift because we were in different stages of life (I thought).I sure hope I'm not that person to any of my new mommy friends!
UGH Two girls from HIGH SCHOOL did that to me. Like, um, we stopped talking for a reason. They were very controlling and very cruel to me. After graduation I was able to cut ties with them. When I became pregnant years later, it was OMG MESSAGE ME I NEED TO TALK TO YOU :(((( and when I politely declined to give out ultra personal details publicly, one girl made a status about me. I was like, nope, not doing this, and blocked them. I live in the real world and am expecting a child. They can stay in 9th grade alone. I was floored by their behavior. One girl was 23!
People are so childish now a days smh
Its the opposite for me. The people who i thought were good friends I havent heard from. People I hardly know or talk to tell me congrats and that theyre happy for me and honestly I appreciate it havent even got that from people I thought I was close to:/
Yes!! Im like u acted like u hated me n never did nun for me now im a person u worried bout?? Den dey try n b apart of everything n wanna buy stuff im like um no we ok.... ive never wanted or needed nun from u n dont now cuz they wud try n hold dat ovee my head later thinking they have a say n what i do with My baby but i do love support from friends i just haven't heard from n a while i understand we both have lives n things we got going on so those pple im more than happi to receive all the love:)
Same with dreamamama, my best friends all left my side, and those people in highschool that were so nice to me but we didnt stay in contact, have contacted me with the best wishes and blessings ive ever gotten. I enjoy someone caring. Its suprised me how the close ones just talked s h i t about my son and walked away .. it hurts
I guess that's just how people are I know what you mean I don't take their things either!