Its your baby you decide :)
It's your baby name it what ever you want to. I had my grandpa try to tell me that I had,to spell my babies middle name a certain way and I told him that I'll spell it however I want and that if he didn't quit it id spell it in a weird way just to spite him. But then again he doesn't like that I'm just like him and don't let people tell me how to do things in my life.
Thank you we are determined not to change the name but making our family's happy just isn't going to happen.
As Long As Both Of You Like The Names, You Should Use Them. My Family doesnt Like The Middle Name We Picked For Our Daughter Because Its Hard To Pronounce And They've Never Seen It Before. My Fiances Family Likes It.
Ive given up caring what everyone else thinks I'm sick of opinions on our choices she's our baby. No one can please everyone so just do what makes you guys happy :)
Well i say its basically up to you guys! If you like the name then go with it! Its going to be very hard to please both families so just do what you feel is right :)