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8924846 tn?1410572901

2 baby showers?

So my bfs mom called dibs on doing my baby shower which is fine with me and my mom because she is really good at putting things together like that. But my grandma and aunts on my dads side also want to do a baby shower. I'm not really a fan of my dad's family because they've always treated me and my sister like we were worth less than our cousins just because we have never been cookie cutter perfect. So If I had to choose one I'd go with my bfs mom. But I hate seeing my grandma upset. So has anyone had more than one shower? How did you go about it?
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9455625 tn?1412820762
I had two. Where I worked the women that would come in did one for me and then my mom and family friend did another one for me. Just if possible try not to let the other know if it will cause dram and if not enjoy the time focused on you, because once baby's here it'll be about them and not you anymore lol
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I had two. My mom did one for me in NC and my stepmom did one for me in MA
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9525685 tn?1410800512
Im having two one for just friends and one for just my family and his because my family is very religious my friends won't g e good company for them: )
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I had two with my first child. I say just let them do it. The worst that can happen is you may get extra diapers!  Have fun!
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I'm having two! My dad's side is giving me one and my mom's side plus my boyfriend family and our friends are coming to the other one!
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I had three one for my dads family. One for my moms family and one for my bfs family there's nothing wrong with having more than 1 shower as long as the same people aren't invited or that's tacky
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10013575 tn?1410961435
I had 2. 1 for work and one for friends and family. Even some of my coworkers are coming to my friends and family shower. :)
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I wish someone would make me my baby shower. ... its so much stress for me.. but nooo I have to do everything myself. ..
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I'm having three xD
One was last Saturday, his dad's side; one this Saturday,  his mom's side; and after she's born is my family
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I had one on the 10 of august and I have another one coming up on the 5 th of Sept.  
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