Friends ugh!

[Franky91]

Just felt like having a wee moan, is it just me or are friends just sooo weird around u during pregnancy, they dont really have time for it, I made plans with my friends weeks ago for a christmas night out this saturday and one of them informed me today that the plans had changed, instead of goin for a meal and a couple pubs they are now all gettin drunk in a house and going out clubing straight after. So basically that was me scrapped from the plans without a second thought that they are leaving me out they would rather get drunk thab soicalize with me! They would rather do alot of stuff that I cant do like book holidays to amsterdam or blackpool or go to a concert. Rant over lol

[rosey3216]

I'm dealing with the same thing. All my friends, even my best friend of 5 years who had a child (that she gave up for adoption) has dropped me because I used to smoke pot everyday and drink and party, and now that I've quit all of that for my unborn child, its like they don't have time for me anymore. :/ *****...

[Yanesmy89]

Yeap... I've learned to cut all of my friends from my life. If they don't have time for me, then  neither do i. They can call me when they want, but thankfully, I have an amazing/supportive family (mine and my in laws). They're all I need :)

[FTM2913]

Yeah i barely talk about my pregnancy, but seeing as ive known her since i was 7 i thought she would be happy for me. I really think you learn who your friends are and arent when you get pregnant. Just like you, my fiance is the best and is my best friend. At least we have supportive other halves! :)

[Franky91]

Yeah see I barely talk about my pregnancy unless someone else brings it up because I know that it can annoy those who dont have babies and to show them that I do still have other things to talk about other than my pregnancy but its like cause I cant get drunk it doesnt matter what I chat about I cant get drunk so end of and not involved in the plans. Just glad I have my amazing boyfriend who hasnt had even a casual drink since I got pregnant and takes me out for meals or the movies to make me feel better

[FTM2913]

Trust me, i feel you. Its not a good feeling, i try to not let it bother me, but it always does. My friend of 22 years barely talks to me anymore since ive been pregnant and if i bring up my pregnancy, she makes me feel bad. Strange! Lol

[whiteness]

I totally understand! Its like none of my friends want to even talk to me any more..like pregnancy is contagious or something..i call and text my friends and no reply but they can write on Facebook right away..that's what the life entails i guess..I'm ok with not having my old friends though because they did drugs and are all really immature and i can't be around that anymore..my little ninja is more important