Frustrated.. Advice

[nicnicole03]

So the sperm donar to this baby is a pos. my fiancee isnt the father obviously. well my fiancée nd I took my other kids to the park to enjoy the beautiful weather. Well the sperm donar happened to be there. Nd comments started flying on how he is so ugly nd I hope to god this kid isn't ugly nd all this. 1 if youre fully claiming baby as yours why would you even think to say the baby is ugly!!! N how if we didn't have kids they'd be fighting etc. I'm like seriously yeh go beat him up that way when we go to court he can say he doesn't want you around baby when DNA comes back. So I get "why you defending him?" "You don't want me to hurt him?" I got pregnant on a one night stand nd I had gotten so drunk I didn't even remember it nor who it was at the tine. long story. My mistake nd I am totally responsible so I don't need to see any comments about my situation as far as that goes.. But as far as my fiancée nd him fighting... What's the point? So how my fiancée says look at the situation you put me in? Really we weren't together when I got pregnant nd the only reason I went nd got drunk that night is because my fiancée walked out on me. But yet the situation I put you in? Then don't be with me?!?! Right!? Nd the comments have been accumulating over the past few weeks the closer it gets to baby coming. You don't have to help me. Then the other night at dinner it got brought up again. My kids were taking about what they thought the baby would look like between the 3 of them. My fiancée says it won't look like any of y'all nd got up rolling eyes. I'm like seriously wth is your problem?!? What's the point in pretending you'll accept the baby when obviously you won't. Ughhhhhhhhh. What do I do? Go it alone? Or continue to hear how i am a screw up cause I got drunk nd ended up pregnant. Nd mind you I didn't have my kids the week i got dunk as they go to their dads week on week off. We have joint custody.  Nd I NEVER DRINK. Ever.

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[nicnicole03]

I'm locking myself in bathroom for a nice warm relaxing bath lol. Screw today. I'm sure as heck not dealing with anything else tonight.

[Mrzflaca8724]

You have to decide how much are you willing to take!! U have enough kids u dont need to add him to your list

[nicnicole03]

It's been war all day... I'm over it. Don't apologize then start another argument ya know. I am 2 weeks from having a baby. I don't need this. Ugh.

[AnnieBrooke]

I'd tell him that the next time he makes a similar comment he is gone.

[Mrzflaca8724]

Id say your man needs to stop acting like that!! Only you guys know whats really going on, but he chose to stay with you even though your having the baby!! Just do you and take care of your kids!! Dont let him say things like that to them becuz u made a mistake . Hes not perfect!! And it wont be healthy for him to be around the baby and treating him or her like that!! Make sure you get a dna test so you can get help if there both going to act like an ***!! And you shouldnt be treated like that by him either!!