Getting home vent!

[melissa_182]

My husband & I went out to eat & so did his brother & wife & kids. I'm already in a bad mood feeling nauseous after eating 2 fish tacos & to top it off we get home & his brother & wife& kids are all in the living room (where we sleep) watching watching a movie on our NEW tv with carl's jr trash all over the damn floor & my medical papers ripped up & crumbled on the floor!!!!! Ughh I'm so damn pissed off my husband & I bearly got the tv last night & since it's a smart tv they're using my netflix account since my husband & I were watching a movie on there last night. OMFG I'm seriously mad they even added my husband's niece's ipad to the devices to control our tv on & watching youtube videos. And that ipad has porn on there it's efn disgusting I'm so irritated they have a similar tv in their room why don't they fkn go watch it in their room.

[AshleighMcneil]

Im sorry I really agree with jadeelouise** its a tv...my situation is the reverse, my brothers are living with me and guess what,  im my house where I am on the lease I do the hell what I please im my living room,  regardless of who im annoying,  its my house. Im all for being respectful, I mean I dont agree with syncing other divices to someone elses belongings without permission but they are also providing you with a home and loosing out on a living room in the process.  Talk with them about how you feel,  you may find they have things that frustrate them too. Living with people isn't easy.  

[tattoobabyjean]

Bleh I don't take kindly to people touching and using my things without asking. Since I got pregnant I became super territorial. Its tough to deal with but its only temporary but I would have flipped if I saw my medical papers torn up. That's important even if its just an appointment review.

[nikkirilling]

Yea my brother in laws girls is two faced too. She used to be worse but she has grown up a little. She's still a             b i t c h and sad to say no one in my bfs family likes her to much cause she is so disrespectful but oh well

[melissa_182]

Yes we sleep in the living room & we're moving out by the end of October because we sued the apartment manager &owner so our case will terminate by then so meanwhile we gotta wait. We have our sh*t together & we also got the tv so I can build credit to get an apartment.  

[Jade_Elouise518]

And it sounds like priorities aren't straight your Concerned with the size of the TV and getting a ps3 when your sleeping in a living room about to have a baby??? How old are.you guys??? Not trying to be a bi*ch  but time to be parents and grow up hun!

[Jade_Elouise518]

Time to.move.out. you shouldn't have got a big new TV and put it in the living room where everyone hangsout. Plus you said you sleep in their is that where the baby will.sleep.as well?????

[melissa_182]

I'll definitely be logging off right before we go out somewhere & it's not that they wanted to watch something with us because they really didn't. They just took advantage at the fact that we were gone for a bit. I seriously can't stand living here anymore specially because my husband's sister in law is such a two face.

[nikkirilling]

See girl that's y I'm happy me and my man live alone with just our kids. I would go crazy if I had to live with his brother and his gf and their daughter. My brother in law is cool but his gf is something else and so is their daughter and she is only 2yrs old.

[carissma]

Sounds like bad parenting to me then !! I understand its not all that easy to just pack up and leave but moving out does sound like your beat option . they think that they could do whatever they want because its their house but it comes down to having respect . which they clearly don't have for you guys . and your husband saying oh if they get their first like OK its the living room I understand if they wanna be in their with you guys to watch a movie but just insisting that they can control it from their devices with out asking is wrong . I feel bad because its only going to get worse when ever you guys decide to buy yourself something nice . try asking them nicely they'd have to do as you ask that's your area . unless their just rude . but I totally understand were you are coming from . I've handled the problem with his sisters but I'm still stuck having to deal with his mom now who gets away with just about anything bebause I'm engaged to such a mamas boy ! Lol

[pregoRita]

Logout of Netflix after ur done watching it

[melissa_182]

And my husband's nieces is screwed up in the head because her parents let her watch whatever movie their watching & its supposed to be her ipad for (games) but it has various tabs for porn & her parents don't use the parental control that she watches all the twerking videos & sings songs about sex & her parents find it funny. It's just sad.  

And changing my netflix password won't work because since I'm signed in on our tv they're just gonna taoe advantage when we're not home. My husband even told me that his brother is going to ask him for my netflix account to watch movies in his room. Ugh I seriously hope my husband & I move out asap.

[melissa_182]

Our tv is a 48in plasma smart tv & my husband was controlling the tv this morning from the bathroom & they were controlling the tv from the ipad. Good thing my husband didn'ylt get the ps3 because he was going to get it but it would go over my credit limit at Best Buy so we're going to wait. The funny thing is I told him before getting home that I wanted to lay down & rest& my husband responded "If they beat us getting home then they're watching our tv in the living room". Sure enough we get home & there they are acting likeit's their damn tv. I can't really say anything because my husband's brother already wants to kick us out because we're having problems with his wife & kids. They know I'm mad & specially with my medical papers ripped up & their trash where we sleep.

The tv does matter because it's ours & they're using it without permission & adding the ipad to the devices to controlling the tv I find it disrespectful. My husband and I sleep in the living room & they NEVER hang out in the living room & yet we come home & they're acting like it's theirs. I got even more mad the fact that my husband had to ask his brother for permission to change the channel.

[nikkirilling]

Yea that's a big negative. Someone would have gotten a beat down

[nonishy]

Change your password on it, and then when they try to use it you can explain to them why you changed it. And how inconsiderate they are.

[kenziandkinley]

I think its someone time to move out

No matter who's place it is, it is disrespectful to be tearing up items or letting someone tear up items that isn't theirs.


Doesn't matter about the TV because it is a livingroom unless it was late at night or bedtime but hooking up devices onto someone else electronics especially if you have things on it kids shouldn't be looking at is just disgusting behavior.

[carissma]

I had the same problem when I moved in with my finance ! Sense we have a 55inch plasma in our room with the ps3 and Netflix his sisters were always in here with us . and being pregnant I understand you do just wanna be alone and lay down and relax once Ina while but they won't let you . you don't wanna be a ***** but yet theirs only so much you can take . why don't you tell them you don't feel good and wanna take a nap or have your husband say something . as long as you stay quiet their always gonna be their . I always had my fiance say something but when he would leave to work they knew they'd have their way . until I eventually started telling them no that I wasn't feeling well ! It'll get better just stand up for yourself who cares what they'll think ! Good luck c: