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This friend found out she's pregnant and went off!!

So I have a mutual friend who just found out she's pregnant right.
Her and her boyfriend live with her mom because they got evicted for not being able to pay rent and find a place on time.
Anyways, she found out, posted it on Facebook and then she started saying "my baby is a miracle doctors told me I couldn't have kids my baby is going to have the best doctors and my baby will have everything it needs . Unlike other lameasses who rely on the government for Acchs or wic "
Oooo she got plenty of her friends mad.
Me too.
I'm a massage therapist , a damn nice career .
My husband and I live in a nice condo.
Pregnant 11 weeks:)
So , I got the hook up with acchs .
If I can'get it best believe im going to use it.
WIC as well.
She really pissed me off because I've known her and her siblings since they were little and they grew up in the projects -_- like really , u forgot where u coming from ?
There's people out there that need acchs and wic and she's over here saying SHE don't need it?
You're obviously ain't taking advantage sweety when you know you qualify.
Calling all women who are on acchs and wic lazy ***** and stuff is just disrespectful .
At least someone's thinking unlike your unstable self.

Anyone else think the same?
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Smh. Ppl shouldn't down others BC theyr getting assistance from the govt or wic anything. Its there to help! I'm getting snap wic and govt assistance And I'm not lazy I have my third interview tmrw! I'm blessed that I'm getting help but I don't plan on being on it forever.
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agreed ! my family is well and able but I do use wic
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I don't know who you are talking about.  But she says she won't need that help.  She sure doesn't mind using her mama's help
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It's just going to end up being the opposite of everything she said. I hate people like that, like seriously get over yourself.
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Right.
Shoot. I'm proud of mothers who take advantage.
It's there to help might as well use it .
U know but she acts like she needs none yet lives with her mother.
Makes no sense -_-
My husband will be a paramedic next year so he'll put the baby on taxes so idk if well get acchs again. It's good while it lasts. U know .
Helps out really in the end.
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6520484 tn?1399082398
What is wic? Is it American? I live in Canada and haven't heard of it; but I'm sure I'd take advantage if I qualified!
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6706619 tn?1391316843
I definately feel your pain! Im on wic & have no shame! I work & pay bills! Money is tight not to mention with what I get paid I can only afford so much since we have to prepare for the baby. Some people are just ignorant to what is happening around them or their past. I bet she wasnt to good for those food stamps when she was eating as a kid or that reduced rent so her mom could make ends meet. It gets me mad to know that people who know the struggle look down at others living it! Just cause you moved on & currently don't use it doesn't mean you won't need it again! Ugh ignorance is bliss! I totally agree with u!
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Wow that is messed up an very judgemental of her!!!   I'm on AHCCCS an W.I.C  an that doesn't mean I'm not going to take care of my baby any less or not be able to buy him the things he wants an needs..   that really pisses me off that some people think they're so better then other people...   My husband is a hard worker an pays taxes like everyone else. So I figure why not take advantage of the things you can.  So yea I went an applied for AHCCCS an W.I.C. an I really don't care what people say or think about it..  it just makes me mad when people are so quick to judge others just because they use that stuff..   an why not have that stuff, the government    f u c k s   us everyday so the way I see it is you might as well take advantage of what they have to offer.
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I was " B , who u think you're fooling. You're only going to post what u want others to believe. U know your mothers gonna make u get wic and stuff"
I didn't qualify for acchs at first , found out it was 2000$ to deliver the baby at the hospital I love and we had the money ready to go.
I applied again and hey , it saved me 2000$
I'm not complaining.
We'' re good with and with out it.
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6706619 tn?1391316843
Wic is a program for women & children. Its used to buy milk, cheese, bread, cereal & fruits for pregnancy & after you get that & formula assistance. @jtrasky
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Sutton19 last part , that's what I been saying!!!
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6520484 tn?1399082398
Thank you! From the comments about having to pay to deliver the baby I assume this is just an American thing. You should all just come across the border to Canada to deliver! It's free here lol
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Wish I knew that before then lol!
Is it free out there in canada?
Who knew huh?
They should be paying us for making the future .
Lol
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Wow really I got it cuz I qualify anything will help children are expensive that was rude of her
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Yeah , she'll regret saying it watch.
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6520484 tn?1399082398
I agree! We're providing future workErs! And yes, even with no supplementary health plan you can deliver fRee in a ward room, or pay $50 for a semi private room, or $250 for a private room. I will definitely not be taking free health care for granted now!
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what is acchs?
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Well s h i t ...
Lol , guess I'll be going to canada!
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Do u have to live in Arizona to apply for AHCCCS?? I dont know how that works..  btw I live in Miami FL
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Does my app say I live in AZ ?
Cus I do lol
Was that a wild guess Dayii95?
But idk, I guess it depends what kind your state offers.
I wouldn't be able to answer that for u :/
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7494125 tn?1392745276
What is AHCCCS
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