Going Out With Other Men.

[Miss_Courtney]

Would I be alone in doing this? I'm going to tell the father today that I'm pregnant, but tmrw I'm possibly going out w/ someone. The father & I have always been "friends" at most, never anything official. Though, I do find it weird & awkward now that I'd be out in a restaurant w/ another man when I'm pregnant w/ someone else's. Granted, this other guy is not my boyfriend. We're just going out & he doesn't know about my situation.

[ladytay19]

I don't see nothing wrong with it

[ladytay19]

I don't see nothing wrong with it

[Bree_ItsABoy]

I go on dates with someone other than my baby's dad.. Nothing official.. I think it makes a difference that I've known the guy since before I even got pregnant, and we had already started to express an interest a few weeks before I found out I was pregnant.. So the whole telling him I am pregnant thing was a bit interesting.. But everything has been fine between me and him regardless of what's going on.

[Miss_Courtney]

@kimmyy93 awww, man. That ***** that he still holds it over your head, but it's good y'all are back together.

[mitch_14]

I think dating is fine as long as you are up front and the guys you go out with know your pregnant...

[kimmyy93]

Honestly when I was I pregnant with my son I went out with another guy actually dating and it was way to weird for me bcuz he wasn't the father of my son. When my bd well he is now my boyfriend found out about it at one of my ultrasound he was sad about it I didn't know it bothered him bcuz he made it seem like he didn't want me back. But needless to say I did brake up with that guy. Now my son is 2 months old and im back with my bd (: he never lets me live it down tho hes like you kissed another guy when you were pregnant with my son.

[Miss_Courtney]

@PonsGirl yeah, I'm focusing on the baby. I was just going to go out as a friendly kind of thing. Nothing more. I see what you're saying though. @derrickjrmommy I've heard about that show, too! It is really interesting. I've been thinking that it'd be sort of blah to go out w/ someone else while being pregnant w/ someone else's baby, even if he doesn't know. I'll just hold out on that.

[derrickjrmommy]

I watched a show called pregnant and dating. I actually found it interesting and turns out there are men that are out there that you could end up in a relationship and everything is alright. Theyre there for you and your child!Hope eveverything goes well!

[PonsGirl]

I'm really not meaning this to come off rude or anything, but I'd just focus on the baby and talking to the bd. Try to get everything settled before thinking about dating. I waited till after I had my youngest to start dating. I ended up getting married to my youngest daddy. You never know what can happen.