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Going crazy:/

Some girl posted on my babydaddys fb 'your my bestfriend :) I love you very much. I can wait to meet your babygirl well message me loser :)'  I'm so mad I want to cry ! I want to comment something back just don't know what I got so much anger :/
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I think titan_nation said it best (: this is the reason me and my bf deleted oyr fbs. Alot less arguments
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7924122 tn?1404037486
I'd definitely call her on it. Anyone that's seen me post on this kind of topic knows I'm not a jealous person. But she's being trashy, and she deserves to hear it. Mention that that baby she wants to meet is coming out of YOUR vagina, so you get the final say on who gets to be around. Remind her "gently" that YOUR boyfriend (making sure to remind her that he is in fact YOURS) may be her best friend, but he's definitely not the loser in that situation. And when it comes to loving him, nobody does it as well as ylu do, and the proof is under your shirt.
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I would tell him again you don't like it and explain that if the situation was reversed that he'd probably feel the same way..  And have him delete her..
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Block her on his fb cased closed lol :)
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I would just comment nd b like haha to bad Ur not going to
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To be honest i went thru the Sam thing with my hubby and his female best friend i tried to be close but she made things awkward by always being on his sack ! He would tell me that he was gonna tell her but never did so I took it into my own hands. I told her to worry about her own bd and to leave mine alone ! Maybe you should tell her to leave him alone and make sure he understands and stops talking to her . Its up to you how much this bugs you .
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This is why my husband and I have never had, don't have, and don't want a Facebook..drama free lol
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9954084 tn?1406872438
I would just like her comment just to let her know u saw it. It's not good to get mad a lot during or after pregnancy (especially if breastfeeding). If ur bf says he's not doing anything bad u should trust him & if Fb is becoming a problem in ur relationship I would just make him take it off
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Ask your hubby who says "she's the one who makes things wrong" why he is okay with having a girl in his life who makes things wrong? Even so if he doesn't do anything why does he want a girl in his life that is going to cause potential problems for his new family... Doesn't make sense to me. Nobody WANTS problems. Why leave the door open. But at the same time I wouldn't expect your Bb daddy to tell her straight up that they can't talk anymore... If he does anything it will probably be just to stop talking to her and to ignore her and let the relationship gradually decline. Also if I were you I would be the joy in his life and not the one who is bringing up girls and problems. Be his ease not problem reminder
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9535172 tn?1409019789
I would just let it bee.. Cuz she def knows that you r see the message  and wants to start something... So like tommrow or whatever write something sweet about ur hubby and let it seem like she ain't nothing cuz she Ain't nothing!! Or write like how *******. R jocking ur boyfriend but he's with u something..... Tho  That's what i would do...
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Yes were still together and I have but he just says he isn't doing anything wrong that she's the one who makes things wrong.
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10064121 tn?1415176073
Oh. Are you and him still together? If you are maybe you could talk to him about it and tell him it makes you uncomfortable for her to talk to him like that.
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We would talk before but she started being fake I just really don't like her and she knows I don't like her
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10064121 tn?1415176073
Do you know her? Or is she just some random girl?
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