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competing...

My best friend and I are a week and two days apart of our pregnancy, were also dating the bothers that are the fathers to our babies. I'm due march 9 and she's due march 18. We found first, and waited three weeks before we told his parents, as she found out a week after I did, she told his parents right away, so she kinda stoll our thunder...rude. I actually cried about it. We had to wait cause he wanted to tell them at his bday party. So his parents didn't say congrats to us at all, their like oh cool two new grand babies! I think she's jealous of me in some way, cause after I post a new pic of a new week I'm in, she instantly post something about her feeling so sick so everyone feels bad. Its like she's trying to compete with me. I get baby things, cause my sister n law had twins, so I try to give my friend some baby things, and she says no, but complains about how I'm so lucky to be getting all theses baby things. Instead of being best friends were now two people who barely speak.
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I know how u feel! My sister in law is jealous to she has a daughter already and I'm pregnant w a girl and she's scared I'm gonna still her babys attention from family or mine dress better than hers, it's ridiculous..
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I stopped offering things. It just pissed me off. I thought it was going to be awesome being pregnant with my beat friend. But its not.
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She is jealous.  Which I think is weird because it would be fun to not go through it alone. But honestly if she turns you down every time you offer something then stop offering.  My sister in law is jealous because I got pregnant.  It stopped bothering me a long time ago. Husband's parents don't really talk much about the baby because of her feelings. So yeah.
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