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wierd question but i need to know

This might be tmi but i was wondering if i could do anal sex im34 weeks pregnant.  Is they're any risks while prego ?...my bf wants to try it and i dont mind since regular sex has gotten kinda painful
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3112100 tn?1379614659
i dnt see why yu couldnt
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Oh okay good i just needed to make sure
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You can try it.  But use lots of lube and don't rush and force it.  Because if u rush and force it you will tear and it will hurt.   So just be patient with it.  And make sure he is patient with it too
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I'm 39+2 I tryed it last night and holy heck it hurt I didn't last long at all cause I'm a cry baby when it comes to pain lol I even used some numbing stuff special for your booty love and it did help.go on Spencer online or to the Spencer store they have it  will take the edge off.
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You think normal sex is painful...anal is worse. Really painful made me cry every time with my ex. But it's safe yes so If u want to try to do it go for it.
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I don't see why it wouldn't be safe as long as he's not rough, but I agree it is not very comfortable lol..my bf keeps wanting to try it but I used to do it for my ex and hated it, and my ex is smaller than my bf.. :(
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Just dont do vaginal then anal and vice versa....infectionville. lol and I tried anal once...hurtso bad. I am not judging....but why do you ladies like it? I guess maybe if you get past the pain of the first time but.... lol
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Oh yeah, god don't switch in the middle of it. Once he picks a hole he needs to stick to it for that time lol! Otherwise you can get yeast infections etc.
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Oh okay thanks ladies..omg now im scared lol im pretty good with pain but now  i dont know if im going to like this...
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4185614 tn?1353272513
Loool rosey "pick a whole an stick to it" I am not much help. bt found the support an comments of the other mummies funny..
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lol well its true, I didn't know how else to say it lmao. But don't be scared, tmi but I had anal sex before I ever had vaginal because I didn't want to lose my virginity title, I don't think it hurts that bad and I have a low pain tolerance, I just think its uncomfortable.
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get anal ease!! its lube/numbing stuff nd it makes the first minutes not painful then after you get used to it then it's enjoyable lol
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Tmi but it feels good at the beginning but it gets better
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4171000 tn?1359428831
It wont hurt anything. You just have to use LOTS of lube and be super turned on. And try to relax as much as possible. Go slow. It actually feels really good if its done right. Good luck and have fun with it..  
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Im it hurt at the beginning
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I wish I had your courage lol. My partner has asked and I looked at him and was no -_- lol.
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They say you shouldn't while pregnant because of the increased blood flow to the region could cause tears & infection. Also hemmoroids are a risk in pregnancy already & it could make them worse, but no it won't hurt the baby.
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4368956 tn?1357406071
Doesnt anal sex make a person have loose bowels or is that a myth?
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All these comments are hilarious and very informative... I think im going to try it tonight since my bf had been asking me for about 3 months .  I hope its not that painful.. someone told me if i didn't have lube to use vaseline so im going to use that
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And @searra i think its a myth about the loose bowels
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1035252 tn?1427227833
It's not recommended during pregnancy because as another member mentioned, there is increased blood flow to the area therefore an increased risk of irritation, damage, and infection.
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1035252 tn?1427227833
If vaginal sex has gotten uncomfortable, google sex positions for pregnancy and experiment a bit...plus use buckets of lube, lol. Vaginal sex is, ironically, going to be safer in a low risk pregnancy
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1035252 tn?1427227833
Ack don't use Vaseline, it does not belong inside of your vagina or rectum...it's petroleum based, not glycerin or water based. Lube is only a few dollars t the drug store, it's worth the investment
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Oh okay thanks
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