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4020799 tn?1355825570

everything going wrong :(

We have been having a run of good luck lately, my bf was doin well at work and we were better off finanically than we have ever been. I found out i was pregnant on 31st july and now im 32w + 4d, we were shocked but over the moon and very excited. Now tho it seems our world is falling apart, im obviously going to be taking time off work for baby but it was ok cos of his wages until some jealous ***** at his work decided that him rejecting her (if i wasnt pregnant i would of broke the ******* face for coming onto my fella) was cause enough for her to tell the bosses that he was bullying her and now hes been suspended and has a discaplinary on friday. If he gets sacked we are stuffed, we cant get benifits because we own our own home. I dont want to stress over it because of our baby being affected but its so hard not to!
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Where abouts do you live ? If you live in the uk you can get benefits love even though u own your own home my friends mum dose and she claims benefits and get council tax payed for and you can claim a sure start grant for your baby.. Try not to stress love Easter said then done I no.. Your fella must be attractive she must be a stuck up she couldn't take rejection she is so sad..your better then her for not sparking her she will get what's coming to her for lieing  :-) x
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He was out if work for 2 years before he got this job 12 months ago and we couldnt claim anything cos i was working and according to the benefits people even tho ill be on mat pay ill still be classed as working full time so entitled to nothing! We will get a reduction in council tax when baby comes but cant get any help with the mortgage! We live in stoke-on- trent x
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