Not feeling very special lately

[violetmoonbean]

I thought being pregnant should be more exciting than this. This is my second pregnancy and I dont feel at all special. Its just hard to be excited when it feels like no one else cares. I dont think I felt this way with my first and now that Im having twins I thoughy more people would be fusing over me. My husband is hard to read. He says hes excited but rarely brings it up. No friends or family ask me how things are going. I feel very alone in this pregnancy. Im surr its hormonal but it just S U C K S! :`-(

[Teahlee101]

Same here. I'm pregnant with my 2nd baby girl and it really feels like no one cares about it. With my first daughter everyone was excited and talking about it and now? Not a word. It's sad because I feel like no one will care for her the way they did my eldest daughter.

[vivi2013]

Oh hun i feel u .. This is my 4th baby but this time is from my second relationship , so im really excited to be starting a new family but my family careless .. My sis dont talk to me no more since she found out , and my mom is ok with it but she doesnt talk much about it .. The only ones excited here is my hubby and kids !!

[violetmoonbean]

@EmilyAlyssa - im glad you have a friend to talk to. It helps. Sorry your sons dad and your family arent being too supportive. It does make it harder to remain upbeat. Once your son is here it will be great. It will be hard but so worth it! Us girls just gotta keep our heads up but it would be nice if guys could feel what an emotional rollercoaster we are on!

[violetmoonbean]

@Annat33 - i am trying to stay positive but its hard when you just feel like you are annoying ppl when you try to share whats going on. My 4yo lifts my spirits when i am down. She has already told me that she wants a boy and a girl and that one can sleep in her room. Love her too pieces! I hope my husband starts so show more excitement when he actually gets to see them during an u/s - makes it more real.

[emilyalyssa]

I know how you're feeling. Not having twins nor is this my second, but I feel so alone with it. I was talking to my friend and I said I thought being pregnant was supposed to be exciting and joyful, I've been nothing but miserable. I haven't had it easy at all. My sons dad picked up and left my family isn't very supportive. I'm trying to make the best of it, but with raging hormones some days it's hard. I think things will be different once he's here though and that's just what I look forward too. If you ever wanna talk message me :)

[annat33]

The first time is always more special cuz its the first time. But it is special doesn't matter if no one else seems intrested. And its really great about twins its a rare thing. So keep ur head up focus on names and prepare for them! Im sure its guna be hard once there here.