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I don't know what to do..

me and my mom got into it this morning before&&'d on my way to my doctors appointment.  it felt like I was having contractions when I got out the car , so when I glt to the appointment I told the lady about it since I wasn't seeing a doctor today,  she just asked how strong they were and told me which hospital to go to if it doesn't stop . we were in the clinic for over an hour or 2 . I was still having pains as we were leaving . well long story short its hours later and the pains are more intense and my mother will not take me to the emergency room . she was stressing me out and hitting me today and the lady at the appointment said that must be causing this , its a sign of preterm labor . I just don't know what to do since know one will take me , my mom says she doesnt care and all that stuff.  im so confused on how she feels about the baby bc one min she wants to talk about names and a baby shower and maternity clothes then the next its like she the devil ,not feeding me , stressing me out hitting me ... since I won't be going to the er can you please pray that my baby will be alright , don't worry about me I'll be fine just pray for my baby .. please thankyou♡♥
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Drink water, and lay down, just breath. If it gets worst call an ambulance please.
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Call the baby's dad.  If you are still together go live with him
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Call an ambulance.. im sorry your going through all of that:( hopefully your mother see that she needs to be there for you.
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Actually there are two types of bipolar 1 & 2 1 moods change quickly I'm bp 2 and mine change a little slower but still change just not as quick as bp1

but yes I would call an ambulance to come get you
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8399001 tn?1399031888
^^ bipolar isnt quick shifty moods. Thats multiple personality or borderline personality disorder or just plain psycho. I have bpd its long bouts of crazy moods like deep depression out of no where for weeks to months, or crazy happy (mania) where you spend tons of money you dont have and nothing can bring you down lol, people who switch moods every 5 minutes arent bipolar. Sorry fo e the ramble, just thought I'd clear that up lol everyone thinks that but it's a common misconception :)
She does however sound mean. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please if it continues call 911. Always better safe than sorry!!
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7417215 tn?1403487102
Ur baby will be fine he/she is in good care and the hands of the lord. . :)
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if you told the nurse that your mom was hitting on you and she didn't report it I would be looking for a new doctor or hospital
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Is your mom bi polar by chance? That's what it sounds like. And yeah if your scared for you or your baby you should definitely call the ambulance. Also I don't know what your situation is but is there somewhere else you can go for the time being? An abusive home is never good but especially not when your pregnant.
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7757724 tn?1396279586
If the pains are intense call an ambulance. If they arent make sure your well hydrated and lay on your left side.
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Call  for the ambulance better safe
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7757724 tn?1396279586
I wouldnt call an ambulance unless you are absolutley sure these are contractions. It cost a fortune for an ambulance to come. Are your contractions regular?  It would be more than just a lot to pain and your stomach will be hardening.. how far along are you?
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I would call 911like right now .Do not wait there's nothing see can say or do .You need to go to the hospital .
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Call the ambulance. Tell them you're having contractions and that your doctor wanted you to go in if they got stronger.
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^^^ that's what I was gonna say! Call an ambulance and go! Better to be safe then sorry
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I'm an soo sorry. Your pregnant nnd shouldn't be goin throught this. Went thru this with my bd in my first pregnancy. . I hope you guys are ok nnd I will pray for you tonight ♥♥
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Call an ambulance to take you to the e.r!!
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7477421 tn?1398195693
She probably is sad because your having a baby
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