We lived with my mom and she moved out of the house and said you guys are on your own now he needs to step up or get out.. And he now has two jobs and we cant wait to meet our daughter in march
Does he have any desire at all to settle down and play the husband/father role?
Tell him he needs to get his s h i t together for your new baby on the way and for the child you already have. That they are depending on him to be the man and provider for the family. They are children..they have no choice but to trust you and hope you're gonna take care of them to the best of your ability. I'm sorry he isn't motivated to get a job mama but just try all the things you can to get him to realize it's time to grow up and be a father.