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is it wrong...

To keep my boyfriend's siblings away from my child? They're 10 & 6, they are just naughty, loud & they do not wash their hands. And oh the mother, is a druggie so I don't want her around either "/ I'm not veing selfish, a baby is fragile & he doesn't need to be around people who can't keep clean...
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I don't let my husband's 1 sister & only brother around my children . They constantly degrade me & say just down right horrible things at all times .so they do not get to see my children.
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Yeah these kids don't get disciplined they don't listen, I'm super ocd after I make #2 I make sure I was my hand with three different soaps lol. Not only that I'm not a fan of rotten kids, if something is done wrong I will snap. I even made a poster a long time ago when I found out I was pregnant it listed a lot of rules. Lol
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I dont think so either. I wont let my daughter around his niece or nephew (5 and almost 6) without me there and even then I keepnit to a minimum. I won't even let my sister in law or moher in law watch her while the kids are around because they dont discipline them and they are little bullies to my 18 month old. They push her and drag her around and try to carry her everywhere and hold her down. You know the mamma bear comes out in me when I am around them because they finally get disciplined.
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7721203 tn?1468443229
omg, GAG!!! lol -- yeah, I definitely don't blame you.. I'm super OCD about that kind of stuff too.. nothing is ever "too clean" for me!!

you're not being selfish at all though, our baby has quite a while before he/she arrives, and we've already set boundaries.. including people/children that just CAN'T be around! lol
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My boyfriends siblings are so rotten. I had to give my chips away because the brother didn't was his hands after he made #2 so I was like I'm not esting it ever again, I rather lose my chips than get sick
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Is probably do the same thing.. After all it's your child.. You have to protect him/her..
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7721203 tn?1468443229
already* but I guess always works too lol ha! ((:
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7721203 tn?1468443229
no, not selfish at all!! all of my fiancé's nieces and nephews are TYRANTS!! lol they're rude, don't listen, sometimes just plain awful!!! our baby will not, absolutely WILL NOT be around them enough to learn any habits.. or pick up any germs lol!!

I'm always like a mama bear, growling at anything that threatens my baby cub.. including small children!!!! lol

my first laugh for the day! (((:
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Not selfish at all. Its your baby anyways. Im not letting my hubbys brother watch my baby until hes around one. His brother is turning 17 this year, but he freaks out on taking the dogs for a wlk by himself so why would i trust him with my baby. No way!
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