I'm needing to vent. sorry.

[annikins95]

Any more I just feel like I'm the only one that truly loves my child. I have to fight with everyone about what I want for my little girl. My fiancé posted on Facebook the sex of the baby and said 'it's a girl.... kind of' like we just found out the sex yesterday and he doesn't understand why I'm upset. No one takes in to consideration about how i feel or what i want to do. I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant and i just feel so blah about everything he doesn't like doing anything and always have me show up late to my appointments. And I'm just fed up with him his friends his family. I love him. But he is just getting on my nerves. And doesn't understand how my emotions are or what I'm going through.His friends want to nickname my child chompers and he laughs at it saying sure. His brother said that my baby is an alligator. And i just sit at home and cry. I've been avoiding him all day ignoring his calls and texts because he is so inconsiderate telling me i need to learn how to take a joke. But I'm just fed up.

[rebeccaann11]

it doesn't seem like any of them meant harm by nicknaming the baby. If your boyfriend is making you late to your ob appointments then don't take him Hun. Also your boyfriend is also a parent, i'm sure he didn't mean any harm by posting it was a girl. I feel he has a right to do so since he also a parent.  It may not seem like everyone is as excited as you are. But its hard for some people to be as excited as the mother. You feel the movements, the kicks, hear the heart beat, etc.

[Eva_Mom1]

Yeah i have no friends and im fine with that but i tell my bf i will not have his family being ignorant towards my baby becauae i will get mean and he always says baby there juat playing but i dont feel like there playing at all

[annikins95]

Thanks. I don't have very many friends anymore and it's just hard on me. He calls it teasing and it's not to me. It's mean. This is my child too and i don't want them to have a mean family. And definitely not a nickname chompers

[Eva_Mom1]

In going through something simular with my family and my bfs mom she dosent care what time i get to my appointment im always late and she always say she hope the baby come out like her she want to be there for the baby its kinda like she wants my baby and she always says mean things to me but i ignore it and cry to myself i pray everyday things get better but keep your head up its guna be ok if you need to talk you can inbix me