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5893755 tn?1377960712

13 Weeks and upset with the father

I'm 13 weeks and the father is completely against having this baby. He wanted an abortion in the first place and I wouldn't do it and ever since then he says he will be happy if I lose it because his life is over. I don't know if I can stand being with someone like this but I don't know if I should stay with him for the baby :c I want it to have a good life but i'm feeling helpless. Advice?
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Tell him to sign over his rights
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5549102 tn?1376522673
Have him watch the video silent scream on YouTube and show him what get would be doing to this human being growing inside of your womb.
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5549102 tn?1376522673
I would tell him to leave and sign his rights over I would be afraid he would hurt the baby.
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5789554 tn?1391017083
Leave him ! U have to have respect for yourself and know that your worth waay more than that
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Don't stay just for the baby its a bad idea. I know its hard to be a single parent but it can be done.
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If he doesn't want the responsibility he shouldn't have been having sex without condoms. Now he should step up BC it already happened. I would leave him.. either way he is going to have to help support the baby. So you should explain this to him and let him know you're not going to have an abortion so he needs to tell you if he is going to stay with you and work things out or if you are going to have to send him to court once the baby is here to get child support
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5623087 tn?1377889284
Leave him ibleft my babies dad cause he didn't want it and its the best thing I've ever done
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