I know this is random but its something thats been on my mind. Sorry if its TMI!! Okay so I was one that suffered with horrible morning sickness everyday, all day for 2 months straight. So me and hubby never really got intamate with each other. Which made him frustrated and act out in wierd ways. But I didnt let it get to me cause I didnt care, I was sick and I didnt want to do it and thats all there was to it. lol.. So then to try and make the mood better I told him once I got into the second trimester then it would be better. cause thats what I heard. But again I wasnt sick I just didnt feel like doing it. Sex sounded so horrible to me. So it made things on our relationship alot harder. Now I am 34 weeks and still cant get myself to have sex with him. But now its not just the way it sounds, I think I have dropped. Cause my bladder always feels so full even when I literally just went to the bathroom 2 minutes prior. and Ill be sitting there doing nothing and my baby will move, and it sends a shock of pressure into my vagina, its so wierd. So Im not saying we havnt had sex at all during this pregnancy, but its been very very very limitated, if I had to quess id say about 10 or 12 times in the past 8 and half months. We tried last night, and the whole time i wasnt in pain, just soo much pressure down there that it was unbearable. is that normal? And someone mentioned to him about all the sex he gets to have when im full term to try and start labor, so now hes all excited about that. But I cant see myself doing it, especaily if the way im feeling now is only gonna get worse. The main thing that bothers me is when we do do it, or I do other things for him, after words he saids "thank you" to me, like im a prostitute or something. I dont know maybe im over reacting but it just bothers me that he says thank you to me after words.. is that wierd to anyone else? Or is it just me? Is everything Im feeling and going through normal.. And this is my first pregnancy if that makes a difference.
thank you in advance
Ammanda
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