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Making me feel bad ;(

I'm 19 and a FTM in a 4 year relationship living with my boyfriend in our own for two years. He is 25 (please don't give me grief over our age difference because I was legal to consent to be with someone over 18) he is a great guy and I live him so much. He works so hard but we just found out that I'm 5 weeks pregnant. The few people I've told have made me feel like a disappointment and like I can't do it. Which makes me sad and ruins out happiness. It's also making me feel bad about telling my family and other friends because of what they may say. ;( should I feel like crap about this??
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5110781 tn?1378361950
I was in a similar situation as you before an i know the feeling...most of my pregnany i was just miserable from everyone giving me grief about everything....but hey its your life and its yalls blessing...if they arent happy well they dont deserve to be in the babys life...ignore the rude ppl that try to put you down and focus on yalls relationship and your now lil family :) congrats!!
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Thank you so much! Finally someone who knows how people treat that age difference lol! Ill try to ignore them! : )
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4963258 tn?1395602072
You should have all the joys in the world. :) Congrats and don't listen to pessimistic people!!! I'm 21 with a 28 yr old and we've been together for almost 3 years :)
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Thank you so much! <3
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Should be*
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Those people abound be happy for you! So ignore what they have to say if it isn't nice. This is a blessing. Congrats!
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