Its a long long story, but I'll do my best to keep it short. When I was 13 months old I was taken from my parents to be raised by my great grandparents due to unsafe environment (drugs, violence, etc) but I love my parents both dearly. After moving to Missouri to be with her mom, My mom had always kept in contact, and always promised to come visit so I could meet her and my little sister. On July 8th of this year, my sister called me and was very upset (she's only 12). Our mom passed away in her sleep due to possible overdose on pain killers (she had just had surgery and was extremely depressed). I never met her, or got to say goodbye.. and this was the day after my first appointment which is when I found out for sure I was pregnant with my first child. I had been so excited to be able to tell her but never got the chance.. I feel like no one understands the situation, besides my fiance but I just don't want to bring him down with it anymore. How can I try and get over this? My fiance and I went to MO and met my family, and went to my mother's funeral. I have one of the urns, but I just feel so sad about it constantly (and I have a bad past for depression and coping). Any advice? I'm sorry this was so long and I appreciate anyone who helps. Thank you..