Due to pregnancy or not?

[JessiiMichelle]

So I'm not sure if this has to due with my pregnancy or not but me and my fiance have been together for a while now. At the beginning we got along so well and it was the best. I have a daughter from before me and him got together she is three. She is my world it has always been just her and I, I know he loves her but I feel like he thinks that she needs disciplined not whipped or anything just she needs more rules because sometimes she does get out of hand but I just hate to see her feelings hurt. I feel like because of this were drifting apart and I don't want us to break up but when it comes to how I think my kids should be raised will not take anything else but what I think is right and it makes it hard on us. And here lately all we do is fight and argue we have been through alot together and I have always forgiven him even when he had hit me and everything but I feel like deep down inside I have not forgiven him and it all comes back to me when we fight and I just dwell on it. I have been thinking about leaving but when were apart we get along so well and I miss him but I don't want to leave because I know things could get better but it's like we talk about it when were apart but as soon as I come back home were fighting 10 min later. Idk what I should do because if we break up or I leave one more time he keeps saying that I can't come back and I'm 37 weeks pregnant and I feel like its just a matter or time before I have our son. What should I do ? Should I wait and see if its just me because I'm pregnant or is this not fixable.

[JessiiMichelle]

I agree with both of you thanks so much I can go to my grandmas and stay with her but I just hate to leave my own house where my kids have there own rooms, its our home and I know he wont leave but I guess I will just have to do what I need to do and put up with staying somewhere instead of being miserable everyday I feel like I cry for no reason but there really is a reason its like all these old memories coming back into my mind.

[Baby_momma15]

If he's hit you then it's not fixable. I'm a ftm but I've been in a abusive relationships. I am so sorry you are going through this. I don't believe in staying with someone who has hit you and if you stay your not putting your kids in a very safe place. If he's hit you and he watches the kids by himself he could hit your little girl. I say that you are better off raising your kids alone than to be with someone abusive. I hope all works out for you hun.

[Melissa_25]

If he has hit you even if it was just one time then you need to take your daughter and leave. Yup don't want her to grow up thinking it's ok to let a guy beat her and you don't need your son growing up thinking it's ok to hit women. Your kids will see and hear every fight and it's going to affect them so you need to do what's best for your children and get out of that environment before it gets worse.