Negative people

[collegeMarriedpregnant]

I know that I'm inexperienced and not a mom yet but I hate it when people tell me to enjoy the time I have  before my baby because being a mom is hard and takes all your time.... This kid had brought so much meaning into my life let me be excited for him to come and don't make me feel naive

[2ndBabyDueFeb13th]

Lol, dont take offense. Its the truth. Its not a negative thing to say, its just how many people feel after experiencing the difference of life after motherhood. Not that its not worhmth it, or that its bad. Its just honetly and clearly tiring and "not easy". Lol. Its easy to get offended when you havent experienced it. You will do fine and be a great mother. Its totally worth it and its normal for it to be a different liffestyle. You will totally get it after u have a few sleepless nights. Moms just want u to get the most out of it :-)

[Msdollie]

well said @iloveKjoy2 couldn't of said it better :)!!

[iLovekjoy2]

Whoever told you that isn't lying and probably didn't tell you that to be mean. Don't take it to heart! Trust me, being a mom you'll learn so much and you'll find strength that you never knew you had. You'll see what people mean once your little one gets here and you may even tell someone the same thing in the future!

[mamabear8911]

Only thing you might lose is sleep at first or when they are sick.. They may drive u nuts when misbehaving and throwing their fits, or crying spells...but everyone has their bad days..Other than that they are a joy! I love motherhood..it makes vacation time,  parties,holidays, theme parks,and date night more enjoyable!!

[christine917]

They play a huge part of yur life & now they have to come first but that's not negative now yu have yur own lil unique creation no one else would have like yurs! You'll still have time for yourself but its just guna be harder making that time now cuss of the lil one . but a child's a blessing. Don't let ppl have yu thinking negative!

[MissJessGolden]

The same thing happens to me. I am 19 and finally get to be a mom. I have wanted to be a mom since I was 13. I also get told I have ruined my life. My son is the biggest blessong in my life next to his dad. I mean yea I get it's a lot of work but there is a lot of excitement that comes with bein a mom.

[Wolfeenix]

Kids do take up a lot of your time but hey its so worth it. Couldn't pay me enough to go back to life pre baby!
Its amazing having a little you! But everyone thinks you become public property once your pregnant and give you their opinion if you want it or not.