What to expect when you're expecting is a very helpful book. After 12 weeks (which, not to scare you, is when the risk of miscarriage goes down), talk with (female) family, friends, coworkers, etc who have kids or are pregnant, they will probably have tons of advice for you :) congrats. I live in Ohio, but saw your post and wanted to share at least a little something with you. Good luck with your pregnancy, it's an adventure to say the least :)
No... I'm 10 weeks from NY but saw your post and want to wish you luck try to stay strong and look for the book called what to expect when or while (forget which one) you're expecting its helping me a lot!.. do some research also online/ library ect. Trust me I know what it's like to feel that way needing someone to talk to and no one's around stay strong tho :)