Nightmare In Wild wild Land...

[hotmama78]

I am happily married to a very successful man... we date for 5years before we officially be husband&wife nearly 4 years now.. for the past 9years been together there is nothing i can complain about.. he is very prefect bf when dating and wonderful loving hubby after married.. we try for baby since we settle down but we always end up with misscarry on and off.. :(

After 4 times fail i now finally 19weeks & 3days... but there is something bothering me so much lately since i preggy.. all the while during our relationship i on off dreaming that he betray me.. hurt me.. and go for someone else.. :( i used to cry in the dreams whenever the dreams take place.. not once not twice.. but on and off..

Its not always the same story line but the fact its always back to betrayal.. :( and i already forget since the last time i dreaming but last night its back again.. In my dream last night i was prego more likely 7 months plus like that... we had dinner at his aunt house.. but i not sure for what reason we end up fight.. then i go home alone.. he went out to have a drink...

He return after so late at night and i asking... where did he go?? he say he went out drink with girl... i say WHAT???? don't u think is so unfair for me waiting u till this late while i am carrying your baby in me??? but he ignore me.. he only keep talking and texting with the girl...

The i ask.. why are you still taking to her while hours ago you already go out and have good time with her..?? he then reply me what make it difference since i already have no feelings towards you!!!! i am so sad and begun cry badly... then i lost control and half way to passed out...!!! he just watching me and let me struggle alone.. he even take a bottle of water and throw it all over to me like i am just piece of ****... :(

Then as i remember i prego, i beg him.. if you want me to die also never mind but please help me save my baby... i feel that time i almost to the end of my life already. Then he called someone.. that person its more to be like someone who own a welfare house for all those problematic prego lady.. i feel so sad that he gonna sent me there... and i crying even more.. i actually truly crying and he awake me scare to hell thought something happen to our baby... i shock and pushing him away...!!!!

all this while i story him every time i do dreams like that and he always tell me i cannot behave in your dreams but i will in reality.. i know my hubby was very nice and wonderful man that every woman desire to have and i am so lucky but why do i always have those kind of dreams on and off...!!!

I know i should not look into it too deep but its make me wonder why does its happen every time i already forget about it...!!! am i think too much... help me figure this out please.. thanks in advance everyone. happy new year...

[hotmama78]

Mandy dear... yeahhh i did.. and he assure me.. he will always love me and baby forever.. he say has been 9years together and now finally we awaiting the fruits of our love.. he won't did silly things to ruin everything..

I also know he love me so much.. i can feel it actually... he work he not even take extra beside money for having lunch at work.. i have it all.. whenever he used up credit card to bring customer out he info me earlier on..

He is very nice man as i mention in my post but i just wonder why are those dreams keep coming on and off...????

Annie dear... yeahhh i tried to think the same too.. i also feel myself being real silly since he never did anything to hurt my feeling.. specially now i am preggy he is really trying hard to treat me just like QUEEN.. and i am so thankful and bless compare some woman that post here how bad they bf/hubby treat them.. feel sorry for them and i hope they not judge me of being real silly prego lady...

thanks ladies for the opinions and advised... i know the more i think over this the sad i will be and the more worries my hubby could be... ermmm... hope its really nothing happen like the dreams... amen..

[AnnieBrooke]

Pregnancy is a time for very vivid dreams.  All a dream is, is a reflection of our fears and insecurities.  It is not a hot line to the truth.  Try to believe your husband and understand the hormones of pregnancy can do a whole lot to your emotions.  See how you feel once the child is here and the pregnancy is over.  You probably won't be so nervous then.  Good luck!

[mandy_28]

I had dreams of my bf going back to his ex and i think its a fear of being left alone with baby. me and my bf went out alot and things have changed cuz i can't go to certain bars and i feel he rather be out then with me. dreams dnt mean anything unless u really believe dreams are a sign of something. have u talked to him about ur dreams?