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No judgement.

Hey ladies just venting! I recently met someone(me and my child's father have 0 communication) who's extremely excepting of my pregnancy and treats me wonderful! I feel so blessed. When we talk she includes me and my baby in her future plans. And etc. yes I said she. I don't discriminate nor do I judge. I simply believe you can't help who you fall for man or women. But anyway I'm extremely sad right now because a couple of days ago she spilled the beans before we got to deep with each other. And told me that in April she's deploying to Korea for a year. I have my baby in March! This is going to be so hard!!
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Thank ladies :))
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Wow that sounds tough, but if it is meant to be, it's meant to be, whether she is deployed or not.  See how you go in the coming months in your relationship with her.  From a bi mumma to be :)
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At least she will be there around the birth time before she leaves
My dad was deployed to korea for a year when I was 4.
I remember him talking to my mom on the phone.
Don't worry she can still talk to you and it passes by pretty quick especially with a new born.
She will be back before you know it.
I would join a military wife support group in your area.
They will help you through so much, especially deployment
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Got my Ms mixed, feelin like a dickhead
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that's wonderful that you've found the person your ment to be with, that's pretty hard she won't be with you when your baby's born, if you ever need to talk I'm here ok?
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