I need help

[Jmcelroy]

I just found out that I'm pregnant, and I'm only 20 years old. I haven't told my parents yet and I'm very nervous to do so. I feel like I will hurt them by telling them, I have been feeling very emotional and depressed lately about it. I don't really know what to do from here now, and if any of you know some calming things to do can you please help me?

[alxlara]

I called my parents as I was leaving the doctors office crying from just finding out. I'm 21 and was so scared of disappointing them but I wanted to tell them as soon as I found out because if I didn't then off be in your position. Thinking about it just adds more stress. Just go ahead and tell them. You'll feel much more relief no matter what their reaction is. And if you're like me, prayer is beyond helpful. I'm now 30 weeks and my parents can not wait to be grandparents. They've helped me tremendously and my mom is throwing my baby shower. She's bought my baby girl so many outfits bc she's so excited. Good luck and hope you're parents take it well.

[maimarty1114]

I was 21 when i found out (just turned 22) and was feeling how you felt. I was scared, yeah they were disappointed my mom even said some hurtful things, but she's gettinh over it slowly. Ik its scary, but once you tell them, itll be a weight lifted off your shoulders.

[Roxxxy915]

Iwas 19 w.my 1st . It was the most hardest thing to tell my mom. She wasnt supportive tbh she would put me dwn alot & iwould cry a lot. But once my daughter was born all that changed she was completely all over her. Lol shes now 3yrs old & lovessss her grandma . She stays w.her almost every weekend. Congratsss!!

[Tricia0818]

I was 15 when I got pregnant with my first son. It was scary being that young but even through the disappointment my family was supportive.

[De3tiny]

I'm not going to say it's will be easy I'm 13 weeks 5 days and I'm 20. I told my parents and had a bad reaction from one of them the other was very very happy. I'm not married and will not marry. I do not believe in marriage but that's just me. Your parents might be angry at first but they will have their heart stolen at the first time they see/hold your baby. Stay strong and everything will be fine. It might be hard no lying but it's truly worth it. Every time I hear my baby's heart see him/her in a sonogram or feel a little movement has me radiating with love. Just remember that you are this child's mom not your parents.

[MrsWise26]

I'm 20 and about 7 weeks along. I'm married, but my mom had been bugging me about getting back on the pill for a couple months (changed BC and took forever to get an appointment) before I could use the new ones, I found out I was pregnant. Was nervous to tell my mom since she was so set on me getting the pill. But I just straight up told her through a Skype call (we're far away from home) and she has been very supportive and answers a lot of my questions! Which is important to know her history as well. The best way to know her reaction is just to do it. Tell her in a calm manner and talk about it.  

[Brilynnsmomma]

I am 20 years old and had just gotten back with an ex we had been together less than a month when I found out I was pregnant. Telling my parents was the hardest thing (his too. He's 21 with 2 kids and 1 on the way) but I sucked it up and just told them I handed my mom my proof of pregnancy paper and said I'm pregnant she hugged me and cried she was pretty upset but now she is more than excited she buys something for my daughter almost every time she goes anywhere and is really excited because I am letting her decorate the nursery!

[Jannagraphy]

I was 18 when i had my first. She is 1 now and we're pregnant again. Things will turn out just fine. Promise :)

[sarahelizabeth13]

I was very scared to tell my parents also. Im only 19 and I knew how they would react. They were disappointed but then they came to their senses and became I guess you can say okay about it. We sat down and talked about our options and I knew I couldnt give my baby up. Just take some deep breaths and once your relaxed the. You should tell them, support is what you need most right now and to not be stressed.

[gabbylovee]

Well if they really love u Nd there really their for u ya they'll be hurt but eventually they'll expect it

[Lovingbaby1115]

My mother wasn't supportive she blocked my number and told me she doesn't care and im 21

[gabbylovee]

I went threw the same thing but i was 18 just turned 19 june 7th i was depressed scared not knowing what to do i couldn't keep it in though i finally told my mom it was the hardest thing to do but wohen u tell them the only thing they can do is except it and be their for u youll get through it and u wont have to worry i want u too know everything is going to be okay i was so shocked and confused but just know you will get threw it and its just another blessing added to your family congratulations on your baby and dont forget to pray cause God gave u that blessing for a reason ❤

[cnertl]

First take a 10 deep breaths when you feel panicked. From your post it seems like you are already stressed and 10 deep breaths have been shown to be as helpful as a xanax with many people. Second tell your family and friends or anybody who could be a support group for you. At first they may be shocked, disappointed, confused, worried, or anything. The sooner you tell the people you need to the more time they have to accept things. Your parents may surprise you and just be automatically supportive just prepare yourself for any reaction. Walk through all possible conversations in your head so your not blind sided by a response.

[amarie2727]

Im 20 and 12 weeks along right now. (although i am married so a little different) you should tell them how you are feeling emotionally, especially depressed! Tell them how much you need them and their emotional support. More parents are understanding than their children think. The longer you wait the harder it will be.